ANSWERS: 11
  • What you should be asking is "Is my wife happy with the way she looks now?" Don't forget she's aged too, and it's not easy to watch yourself change over the years, remembering what you used to be. If she's happy with her appearance now and it's not a danger to her health, it's time to remind yourself that you married the woman because you love her. You didn't marry her butt.
  • suggest that 'WE' should go to the gym and you would like to be healthier and you would love if you guys could do it together if anything it would make her feel good because your trying to include her in what your wanting to do instead of her feeling like she has to change for you
  • offer to take a walk with her every evening (just to spend some time alone together) and take her dancing every Sat night! fun, fun, fun
  • hmmmm, and are you still perfect after all these years? No hair loss, belly, kept up with all the charm that won her in the first place? Maybe you should try loving your WIFE, rather than just her body.
  • OMG, seriously? I mean, if you're concerned for her health that's one thing, but if you just think her butt's too big, then just get off your high horse and lover her for her. honestly...
  • Learn to love big butts might be the easier way out.
  • Wow you're walking on a very thin line be very careful! :) Tell her you want to get in shape and you want her to come with you so you two can have your own thing together and get you both gym memberships and make it like a date!! she works out the butt, you work on your arms or whatever to impress her an you get your nice butt back on her she gets quality time with you :)
  • that's a tough one. have you tried sedating her and administering liposuction?
  • You can't do it without hurting her feelings. That's a very tender subject. Losing wieght takes a long long time, especially as we get older. You can only accept her the way she is. If you push it she will end up miserable and so will you.
  • Ask her to start living a healthier lifestyle, that you will both do it together.
  • Have you changed at all?

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