I found out my gf ive been dating for 3 mnths now has been cheatn on me. She said she's sorry and wont do it gain. but told me she cheated cause she wanted to know what sex felt like. should i dump her?
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mike782
ANSWERS: 12
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She wanted to know what sex felt like?
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Yes
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Why wasn't she getting the sex from YOU?
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no she wasnt. I live in missouri and she lives in florida but told her i wanted to wait til marriage and thought she wanted the same. I found out shes been doing this guy in her town she met online. but she said she loves me and was thinking of me while having sex with him
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Dump her. Obviously she doesn't care much about you else she would have had sex with YOU?!
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My gf sound very sorry for cheating on me and promises me she'll never cheat on me again. She told me she didnt cheat to hurt me but to find out who she is.
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The subject here is trust. She betrayed that trust. Can you truely trust her again or would you constantly question whether she is being unfateful , again. Despite her answer the fact is that she seems to have done it in hopes of getting what she desired (sex experience) without risking how you would react if you knew. Otherwise she would have confided in you about it. It seems the relationship is important enough to her to cheat and deceive you in hopes that she didn't lose it but not important enough to keep her from her other desires. If this is the case, then you have to wonder is your relationship more important to her then you are? From me point of view, I think you should seriously consider breaking it off. If not permanently, then at least in the short term. If she is really commited to you she will be around outside of an intimate relationship. Hope this helps.
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Chant, Actually she was the one who told me this past sunday. She started to act funny couple days before she told me. She was making excuses blaming me with stuff and telling me she wanted a break. this caught me off guard. then sunday came along and she finally told me. And she told me she was sorry and sunday night she kept calling and crying asking me to forgive her and told me what she did was wrong. I took the news hard a first and said some mean things to her. But I decided before I would break up with her that I would hear her side. she sounded really sincere about her apology and wanted to make our relationship work. so i decided to stay with her. but I did tell her that if she did it again that we are through. And she has to earn my trust back.
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Wtf, dump her !!! Be the man ! Women don't want a weak man, and I'm sure your sex would be just as good as any other. don't even think twice about it. "once a cheater always a cheater." Just you wait, you will get your revenge. And one day an amazing girl will come round, and that slut AND BITCH will pay. sorry... as you have probably guessed, I have had a previous gf cheat on me before, because I actually respected her, and didn't want to "force" her to do anything. But then of course she fucked some other asshole who was offering her "great pleasure", in the end she was a total mess because he left her like a rotten sock. and who does she come back too? ME. (we were about 15/16) of course I didn't take her back. A year later I found a wonderful girl and I have been with her for a year now. So sit tight and wait. this is a girly shit to say, but man it's good to hear it sometimes: YOU DESERVE BETTER !
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dumb... do you want to be writing on one of these forums say five years from now after a child.... dump her ass........ interesting how she justified herself...
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wheather your a girl or a guy, there's no EXCUSE when it comes to cheating!!! to make it short she's a whore! sex maniac and she'll never be contented with one partner!
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She's going with you but had to go to someone else to find out what sex felt like. You not takin care of business. I think I'll let you answer this one.
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