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by bonny34 on January 3rd, 2007

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Why dont boys like tom boys? how do i get a bf? im in grd 11 and i havent kissed a boy or had a bf ever help!!!

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  • by tigueron on January 3rd, 2007

    tigueron

    whatever you do, don't stop being yourself, if you haven't been kissed that means that you are a rare gem harder to be spotted but much more appreciated when found. You can work on your social abilities and modify a thing or two so you feel better about yourself but keep your core, keep what you really are.

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  • by Valparaiso on January 17th, 2007

    Valparaiso

    Honey let me add that you need to calm down a bit. There is no need to rush these things.

    Kissing a boy shouldn't be about anything but love. Too often people make it into a social status thing and thats not anything it should be.

    Wait for someone that you love and that loves you, don't rush something like that because your afraid that you might not be cool because of it.

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  • by Jenniferocious on January 17th, 2007

    Jenniferocious

    Boys do like tom boys. I was one, and I also didn't have a boyfriend until grade 11. Kissing random boys is overrated anyway. It's much more fun when you're really interested in someone.

    Just relax, try to be yourself, and certainly don't go out and try to make yourself appear to be different than you really are. You will find the boys that like you for you. You don't want a boy to like you for who you are pretending to be.

    I know it sucks. I always felt like I was the only one who didn't have boys interested in me. My friends always got dates, and boys asking about them. It took a long time before I got to have the same experiences. But, let me tell you, the boys that I did find were much better than any of those boys my friends found! They were worth the wait!

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  • by Anonymous on November 16th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Ive always liked out going girls yet a lot of males
    dislike woman that can be independent.Thats because
    the men are insecure with their own mucho-homophobic
    hang ups.Just be your self,dont try to change your
    -self for others,You will find the right person so do
    not rush an make a mess that will not work...

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  • by HeyShorty on June 4th, 2007

    HeyShorty

    Don't worry! You are still so young and have plenty of time for kissing/boyfriends. I didnt have my first kiss until the summer after 11th grade. Then, in 12th grade I had a lot of meaningless hook-ups, but they were just that, meaningless. Wait until it really means something. Don't rush! Chin up, keep smiling, and have fun!

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  • by Michellek518 on January 17th, 2007

    Michellek518

    Wow....just because society illustrates that you "should" have a boyfriend or you "should" have kissed a boy by now, doesn't mean that you should join the crowd. It'll happen, don't worry. But don't rush it. There are far more things that your should be this concerned about at the present time in your life. Don't change who YOU are just to fit the societal 'norm.' Who is to say that it is "nessisary" you have a boyfriend when you are, what, 16? 17? Wait until college when your life begins to pan out and you see what and who you you are and really see yourself with.

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  • by littl_foggy on January 17th, 2007

    littl_foggy

    don't change for boy's. men count and they don't want those stuckup "like whatever" bimbos from school at least not the mature worth your time men. so hold out go out where you feel comfy and meet men who are interested in real woman.

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  • by LeMeThink on January 17th, 2007

    LeMeThink

    Honey, don’t rush. Not kissing someone is not end of life. Patience brings sweeter fruits. There is always someone special waiting for you, just came in the world for you. Meet more people. Never go by what others think of you. More important, believe in yourself.

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  • by Kenzo B. on February 27th, 2009

    Kenzo B.

    Hi, ehm about that "boys dont like tomboys" idea; ive got to tell you that Im a man and im totally into them.

    SInce i was like 10 i started to like tomboys. (im 14)

    Ive loved em ever since

    :D

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  • by Football on January 28th, 2010

    Football

    dont worry im a tomboy i dont have a sweetie yet but the right time ill come dont stop being a tomboy a tomboy dosent need a boy to protect her and thats what boys want

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  • by showmethelove on January 2nd, 2010

    showmethelove

    honey, im 14, had my first kiss summer of 09, dont worry, its nothing that glamorous :) wait as long as u can to date! once u start its like a snowball of heartbreak and drama tumbling down a mountain. it just gets bigger nd bigger nd cant stop. ps boys r stupid nd dont have good taste in girls as teenagers :)

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  • by Anonymous on January 24th, 2008

    Anonymous

    If you care that much being a tom-boy is not for you! What do you really get out of being one? Nothing! Try wearing bell bottoms and a babydoll top. With Tennis shoes. Guys will love that you've changed!

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  • by VOD on January 17th, 2007

    VOD

    You may have to wait til college. You have grown up with these people and they can only see you as one way. You need fresh eyes looking at you.

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  • by Mirage V2.0 AWOL on November 16th, 2007

    Mirage V2.0 AWOL

    You should hook up with this AB member with similar concerns.

    http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/91993

    You may also search AB for "I am 14 and never had a girlfriend" for a list of available suitors!

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  • by Nikka Yuko on November 16th, 2007

    Nikka Yuko

    Just don't rush it. When the time comes along, you will find someone that will love you for who you are and you will kiss the right person for the right reason. Believe me, rushing into anything like that is not something you want to do. I just finished high school and I was in the same rush you were. I got my heart broken many times. Most guys are very immature at that age.

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  • by AnonymousGuy on December 25th, 2009

    AnonymousGuy

    I'm sure your a special young lady. Don't rush into something to keep up with your friends. Take pride in being different and people will admire you. Sure the jealous ones will make fun, but there are all kinds of boys your age that haven't kissed a girl either and they will wait as well. Just be strong, it will make you a better person as you grow up!

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