I wish you luck in your search. I too am a virgin (woman) who was looking for a virgin guy and found him by the grace of God. Just keep your moral stands and when the time is right she will enter your life...:)

I suggest you not place as much importance on virginity, and just look for a girl you can have a real emotional connection with. In other words, meet a girl, fall in love, and disregard whether or not she is a virgin.

Hey bro, I read this question as well as another question you posted about you dumping a girl because she wasn't a virgin. I gotta step out here and tell you that your going about it all the wrong way. First off, do you want a virgin because you want to wait until you are married to have sex? Or do you want a virgin so that the first time you have sex you can be with a virgin? To be honest man, put the whole virgin **** aside. What you should really be looking for is a good person that fits your characteristics well. The fact that you are out there looking solely for a virgin will definitely creep alot of girls out. With you going on to college soon, it will definitely do this. I think your heart is in the right place, but why is a virgin so important? Are you afraid of getting an STD? Do you worry that you won't be "good" since you will be a virgin and she will not be? Do you have some other concerns? What I think you need to do is take a big step back and look at all this crap you are writing. It is highly respectful to want to save oneself for marriage. I am catholic, my faith thinks you should wait till marriage, however I have not done this. I am not going to give away my number, but there are females I am not proud of. Not to go all religious on you, but Christianity teaches us to forgive others for their faults, regardless of what they are. My guess is you have done some things that are equal if not worse than having premarital sex. So, go out, date, get to know girls. Get this sick little thought of meeting a virgin out of your head. Just because she has had sex doesn't mean she isn't a WONDERFUL person. Get to know her, you don't have to have sex with her. If she brings it up, tell her how you feel, but DON'T judge her for it, ok? Sex is special but don't let everything be based solely around sex. Your young bro, you got alot to learn. Sit back and realize the things that you are asking.....

While it's wonderful to find a virgin if that's what you want, you're going about it wrong. First you make sure you are ready for a long term relationship, one that will end up in marriage. Then you find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life together, that has the same dreams and goals as you, the same standards, hopefully one that has the same morals as you. Then you get engaged and have sex on your wedding night. That is what an old fashioned girl does. That is what I did. Both my husband and I were virgins, I was 18 and he was close to 25 because we both thought it was wroth waiting for. And we've been together for 35 yeas, happily.

Look on the internet. I'm sure there is a meeting ground for people you are looking for.

I think that is wonderful. You know exactly what you want and you should get nothing less than that. Try meeting someone at your church... maybe a youth group.

Like some of the other people here have said, I think it's great that you're trying to keep to... tradition? But don't place too much importance on virginity. The other things you'll want to look for in a girl are going to matter more in the end.

First of all , you are supposed to be a virgin cos you are only 17. Good for you. Wait to have sex till you get married. But if you only look for virgin because you want to have S with a virgin partner outside marriage, you waste your time. Try to make friends in the church, you might meet one.

Virgins aren't necessarily all they are cracked out to be. I learned that the hard way.

So...let me see if I have this right...? You consider yourself to be unique for some reason (17 yr old male virgin isn't unique so it must be something else)... and you are looking for a naive young girl to deflower...for your own reasons and purposes...and satisfaction. And then what? You ARE a predator...if you read your own question over a few times you will see this.

This is an increasingly sexual world, you can't restrict yourself to virgins or you'll be sick of looking for so long. Anyways, a woman's first time can be painful and not enjoyable. If you want a really nice sexual experience, I wouldn't go for someone as inexperienced as you.