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Thank your friend for being honest. Tell her about it and let her choose... clinging is ugly.
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Keep them away from each other, if there is any way you can.
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just don't tell your wife. take it as a compliment. and make sure he has no funny ideas....
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Take it as a compliment, sometimes they sneak around behind your back. My brother done that with me, so I broke his arm.
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In inermes amor descendet -- love descends on those defenseless. Perhaps he has this crush and he wants to get past it but he can't do it on his own. Perhaps he feels that by bringing it out into the light of day he will discharge the power it has in the shadows of his soul. I would consider it flattering to your choice of women, and a sign of respect that he came and told you.
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Hmmm well if he just keeps the matter unto himself everything should be fine however if he goes out of his way to attack you and divide the two of you then it is safe to assume that you will go onto the defensive and explain to him that the two of you are in love however if your lover chooses to love him that is her choice. Love is mutual and hence if she makes a choice about herself then you must respect it. You cannot force anyone to do anything, hence remember if she chooses him it is her choice. Don't force love down her throat. Anyways why do you say, "My Woman?" Did you buy her? Hmmmm I am guessing she choose you so then it is safe to say, "The one whom I love as she loves unto me," but it is alot easier to say, "My Woman."
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Difficult position to be in. I personally would stay away from this friend I think. A true friend in my opinion wouldn't tell me this and inflict stress upon me. He would deal with it as best as he can. And if he is not able to, he should be loyal enough to keep distance and only...if needed explain why he has done so. I expect most of the time that my friends fancy or are in love with my partner. It's just the way it is. Who would not fall in love if she is attractive and has a nice personality? I would perhaps feel the same about a friends partner. But like I explained before...a friends partner is a big no no to me...no matter what. What does it help to voice every thought one has? I sure fancied some mothers of my friends in the past. Do I go and tell this friend that I wouldn't mind sleeping with their mother or sister? I think not...
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