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When people dont know how to communicate fairly or calmly- they attack. The strongest stand you can take is to find a way to emotionally step back from the situation let it calm and then talk in terms of "I felt like...and it would help if you could understand and approach the situation like...instead" type thing. That way they dont feel like they have anything to defend. Sadly the best way to change the way of communicating between you is by example which takes longer than attacking. If he chooses not to learn you just have to keep taking the high road and keep being the example. Best of luck to you.
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Be direct...be quick...and be kind. I heard that advice just this morning on the radio. Be direct: speak about the one issue at hand. Don't bring up past transgressions. Be quick: don't let it fester. Talk about it when it happens, if possible. Don't let a minor argument grow into something unmanageable. Be kind: remember you love each other. No harsh words. I personally think that when we use hurtful or curse words with each other, it eats at the relationship. Hope that helps!
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