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  • How often did you see her? It's hard to keep up a long-distance relationship because both people are living separate lives between meetings. It's not to say it can't workout, but there's already enough challenges in a regular relationship much less a long distance one. Have an honest phone discussion with her today, tell her why you are having mixed feelings-- tell her the truth and don't mince words. She'll be thankful to you in the long run. Then cancel your airline flight. Best to you both.
  • Cancel the trip. You say "I am sorry but at the moment I cannot justify spending the money to come to visit you. We need to really talk about where this relationship is going...because right now I am feeling 'stuck'". Be honest.....it isn't about hurting her feelings at this point..it is about not leading her on.
  • If you can't cancel your flight, I would say go sightseeing. Definitely talking with her openly about it is a good thing. I would rather be notified about something so serious to a relationship than not told, no matter how "bad" it is. Better to be truthful and hurt someone for a few days then to lie to someone for years and hurt them much more.

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