ANSWERS: 5
  • This thought had to be crossing your mind as you were typing this: "Has my love life really come to this? Asking for life-changing advice from a bunch of strangers on the internet?" Am I right?
  • do what you feel is right.
  • I wont sit here and tell you what you SHOULD do. But i will tell you this. Both options arnt the greatest. Your parents are a big part of your life untill you die, if they really love you dating a woman wont change anything. You just need to belive in yourself. Know that what you do will effect your life now. Start looking out for you. If you know that this girl will be beter than this guy, do it.
  • Well, I'm not you so I don't know all your experiences, but both options don't sound good... to me atleast. #1 Thinks she loves you?? Just thinks??? If you want her to work then I suggest you keep your relatioship going a little longer before you commit. #2 Sounds bad as is. If he really hurt you, a lot, chances are he hasn't changed. And if you've been with him for 9yrs. , then you should know. I would probably go with the first one. But you really have to work at it, or just honestly find someone else. It' will probably be my best opinion to you.
  • I am a 32 year old childless woman so I know how you're feeling but remember these aren't your only options. Even though it may seem that way at the moment there is always something waiting just around the corner. Have faith, find it from within and what you are looking for will come to you (I hope anyway, that is what I am banking on at the moment:) Good luck!

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