ANSWERS: 6
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  • My God! I don't know whether I would believe her or not. Ask her when it happened and where and try and so some detective work over the web. It just sounds very weird. Have you met any of her friends? They should have a bit of information. I would be very suspicious.
  • You need to verify her story.
  • I wouldn't judge her too harshly, it's not suprising that she's so needy and moody, how long ago did this happen? You have to ask yourself though, are you ready/able to be in a relationship with someone who has so much baggage? I guess this depends on how much you like her. If not, it's not fair to string her along, after already being through so much, she doesn't deserve any more crap. Also, there's the issue whether she is truly ready for a relationship. She'll never get over the death of her two children... but hopefully she'll be able to get to a place where she can be happy and secure in a relationship. From the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like she's in that place at the moment.
  • That would freak me out more then a little! If the story was true then I would get the hell out of there, unless I was really very very extremely much in love. This bagage is just a bit too much for what I want to carry with me. If the story wasn't true I would also get the hell out of there. Someone who makes up stories like that.... is just plane nuts.
  • Daammmmmn!!!!! Okay now that I'm over the shock let me give you an answer. I would be shocked as hell to have someone tell me that but I'd be cautious about asking for proof. If it's true then you'd be insulting her and if she's lying she's plain crazy and you never know what crazy people will do. I would take her at her word for the time being and allow her to talk about it when she feels comfortable. I don't think her waiting a month to tell you is odd. Would you have called her for a second date if she had mentioned that on the first? Maybe she wanted to give you a chance to get to know her outside of that incident. It could be possible that the anniversary of the incident is coming or has just passed and that's why her mood has changed.
  • Let's see..it takes her a month of pretending to be someone else..then she reverts to type and tells you about her past experience. I'd move away. This should be something she'd tell you immediately..unless she is delusional and it's not true. Anyway..yep..I'd back away from it and her. Happy Monday!

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