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What he did to you was horrible and the act of a true ass. However, what happened between you and him is not between him and the baby or you and the baby. What I mean is that he may have been a total prick to you, but he is still the baby's father and you owe it to your child to let them try to have a relationship. However, if that's what he wants then he has to accept his responsibilites as well as his privileges. He has to help support you and the child.
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well, i wewnt through the same thing when i was pregnant with my daughter, he got 2 other woman pregnant while i was!! and we were "together"...and the best thing i ever did for me and my daughter was leave that son of a bitch...and now my girlfriend went through the same thing, they split up and now 9 yrs later, they have another child, and shes been in tears withme over th ephone cause she doesnt want her sons to grow up to have a drinking problem and cheating and what not...you have to do whats best for child first and foremost...you dont want them to think what hes doing is ok. as they may not now for a while, kids arent stupid...
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It is in your baby's best interest to have both a mother and a father but it's not in your interest for the father to be with you. Keep the father somewhere else but let him see his child. He should be a part of the child's life but that doesn't mean he has to be part of yours. Keep it amicable for your child's sake.
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the child deserves to know their father, so you'll have to be the bigger person between you two and allow him to meet your baby. does that mean you two have to come back together as a couple? no way. i would not even begin to think of that again. but if you don't allow him access, the child will get old enough to get curious about their father and if you refuse visitation rights, your child will begin to resent you for it.
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