ANSWERS: 5
  • If you love him and he is great, why are you trying to find a way out? Do you think there will be something better out there for yourself? Are you just bored with him? Feel like your a rut?
  • stop trying to make drama. i think real love is drama-less. it is comfort, and calm, and peace. if you miss the adrenalin so much, start sky diving.
  • I feel pretty similar to this at the moment, and it's hard one to call, isn't it? You don't want to stay, but you're also scared that if you go, you might have wasted the love of your life. My advice to you (which I wish I could follow myself) is to end it with him or at least take a break, and give yourself some time to see if you can live without him. And just cross your fingers that he'll take you back! =]
  • We stay or go depending on our personal level of comfort. The real question we have to ask is where the discomfort comes from? Mostly we can live with anybody, it depends on our willingness to accept ourselves.
  • The fact that you asked the question kind of says what the answer should probably be. You may love him, but you are not in love with him or you wouldn't be looking for ways to get out. Some are happy with "comfortable", you want more. That's no crime. You are in charge of your happiness. Good luck.

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