Early in our relationship my girlfriend communicated with me regularly by email. Now I just get emails as part of her group of friends, rarely anything personal. What does this mean?
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Probably because you are deeper in the relationship now and you communicate in other ways, such as phone, talking face to face, etc. It doesn't mean anything, really.
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The other respondant had a good idea by suggesting that you talk more personally now--but that's assuming you do! If email is the only way you communicate (for example, if it's a long-distance relationship), and you've stopped getting personal mail at all, something is definitely wrong. That would suggest that she's got more interesting things to do than drop you a note now and then, which isn't a sign of a healthy relationship. On the other hand, if you see each other frequently, chat on the phone, etc. but haven't been getting emails, it makes perfect sense that she's got less to say to you in writing. If you weren't present for whatever she'd have to tell you about, she can just tell you when she sees you. Personally, I'd think twice about a girl who sends out mass emails regularly, but that's just my opinion. ; )
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She's probably more busier than usual. The best advice is to simply ask her. Say, "Such-and-such, I've been noticing that you haven't been communicating with me as much as you used to. Why is that because I'm concerned. Is everything going alright with you?" Opening the lines of communication is always the 1st step in solving a relationship problem. Once you confide in each other, then you're much more likely to solve the problem. Bottom line: Ask her because only she can give you the answer.
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