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  • No; however, I do so long for a gay friend.
  • Well, I think he was gay all along and in denial, but yes.
  • "ended up gay" no, but 2 of my last 4 girlfriends turned out to be bisexual, 1 before me, and one while we dated. Which means i'm hitting a 50% rate right now. At first it seems like it'd be hot "oo, maybe she has friends" and it's kinda attractice, but i tend to be a little jealous so in the end i just see it as now, darn, she might leave me for another guy OR girl... (one did cheat on me with a girl)
  • Yes I did! And I think she should have told me when we were dating! How embarrassing to find out your girlfriend is gay! Then there was this one guy I dated, and I'm not sure he wants to admit it, but by golly, he sure was a candidate for being gay...and another one who ended up being a youth minister. Wow, you made me think alot on this one.
  • no I haven't yet.
  • Well, I don't know for sure, but Hubby met my last boyfriend and swears that he is gay... I think because we never had sex, Hubby just can't imagine any man sleeping next to me and not wanting to get a little sumpn, sumpn... I don't know and I don't care, but what can I say - Hubby worships the goddess Mama_Bear! LOL!
  • During High School I found out of my best friends came out after I moved away.
  • My prom date back in 1983 was gay but we just went as friends, we were not romantically interested in each other, so I guess it's really a moot point.
  • Yes, A long time ago I dated a cop from my town. He was SO funny, and was really nice to me and my kids. We went to weddings together and out to eat, but everyone said he was gay and I did not want to believe it,he was so much fun. No one still knows for sure, but every now and then he pulls me over just to chat, plus he is so cute. DRATS..I just heard recently he lives with a guy. Regardless he is one good cop and a real nice guy. <crap>
  • Yes. Most of them. Thank GOD! I would have hated to accidentally date a straight dude. That would have just been wrong.
  • Twice. ***Sigh. And my grandfather was gay so...my picking style probably runs in the family.
  • Well, I'm not sure. After we broke up he started seeing men..then women..then men again. I really don't know if he's gay or just super easy?
  • wow, I cant imagine how confused and hurt you must feel. However everything in our life has a meaning, and purpose even though you may not know the reason right now
  • Yes. He was a born again Christian so he thought that maybe dating me could make him straight.
  • I once went out with a guy when I was 15, about 2 months into the relationship he said to me "Thank you, Vanessa. You're the one who made me realise that I'm gay." Now that was a shocker, & did nothing for my ego, trust me!
  • yeah i did,lol i met some girl up stairs in my apt 1 day when are power went out.we kinda hooked up on the first night and she was pretty hot.well we hung out a couple times and more and more happened ,then 1 day on the phone she busted out sayn "ah i dont think you will understand this but i dont want to see other guys but i want to see other girls"i about shit myself ,i didnt know if it was a good thing or a bad thing cause i liked the girl allot and i didnt know what to say.I was pretty sad ,but after awhile i was like hell yeah "another notch on my headboard"..lol j.k
  • i was with someone for 7 years...and out of no where he tells me he wasn't "in love" with me anymore and that we both wanted different things in life. i was devastated! We both had planned our futures together and planned on getting married after he came home from iraq (he broke up with me through myspace e-mail). About a month later he told me that he was going to swing the other way for a while and see how that goes...My heart was shattered of course from the breakup, but at least now I know that it wasn't that I didn't try enough in the relationship or that it was my fault in any way...I still love him and am so sad that things turned out this way, but I wish him the best! I'm just glad he realized it before we got married...
  • no and it is really hard to believe him deeply when he says he has ended up being gay.
  • yes myself...Lol :)

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