what did they call you? Did you call them something even worse back?

If someone on Answerbag is calling you names you should report them to the staff immediatly. There they would be dealt with

Shake it off. If it was someone you do not know, it's just some internet moron. If was someone you know, tell then to KYA and move on.

Honey i believe that its other peoples right to answer any question how they like on here.. name calling etc!! if your going to ask questions on AB you have to take what people say rightly or wrongly.. Don't take it to heart there are many weird and wonderful people on the net..

I'm so sorry that happened!! ((((hugs)))) to you!! I know that it's hard not to be offended but what that person is is a pathetic soul who has nothing better to do than resort to name calling and be all big and bad because they're cloaked in anonymity. Don't give them the power to make you feel bad. They're not worth it in the least.

It isn't true - you're wonderful, sweet, kind, and a great AB'er. Don't let it get to you.

Yes, you should be offended. You should also spend some time reflecting... to see if there's any truth to what they said. If so, you have derived some value out of the shit that was thrown into your space. If not, you can safely ignore their opinion. I think it's a mistake to have a whole bunch of rules for yourself about how you should react. It's OK to flip the finger to them, it's OK to ignore them, it's OK to try to get into a deep discussion with them about why they did it -- it's your call. If they're just being a complete asshole, usually there's not much point in talking, though. I've been called some truly incredible things online. Sometimes I respond and sometimes I don't. I think the only way I can really screw up the situation is if I fail to look in the mirror and ask myself "well, is any of that true?"

honey, that aint right! namecalling can be very hurtful, if you let it get to you. please dont let it bother you too much ~ just remember that maybe that person has other issues you dont know about. let it go. youre a good person. heres some therapy...why dont you add your favorite silly name for a complete jerk to the list... http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1004062 of course, i dont recommend saying these names to someone to their face. as nietzsche said, be careful in fighting the monsters lest you become one...but its definitely humor therapy!!! :D

If someone insults you by calling you a name, that's probably the best time to be offended.

why not... But on the other hand, you KNOW it's not true. You are one fabulous, sweet, funny, caring, and loving ABer...Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! ^_^ (No, it's not a lizard....unless you want it to be...!)

Sure it does hurt to be called an ugly name and many do get offended, that sort of makes us human. The thing to keep in mind here is that when someone lower themselves to behave in such a childish manner there are circumstances that placed them there. Perhaps this is how they seen their mother and father resolve issues. Not to excuse their rude behavior but some insight as to why some may do it. Of course this does not help you be less offended. But it can help you on how to react. From others answers and comments you did the right thing by not interacting as that would have only lead to more of the same. As there is no reasoning when it comes to a less developed mind. It is normal to be offended, but letting them know they got under your skin just makes them want to keep spouting off. They see those that are hurt as weak and this makes them feel superior. When they see that your not bothered they back off knowing they do not have anything left to say. You know who you are and what you are. Any names added on to this list is only meant to harm you or build you up. 99% of the time these added names are untrue and you know this as fact. Example: Someone calls me a fat slob. I am not fat and I am a very tidy person so yes calling me this may hurt but knowing the truth that they are wrong just lets me know I am speaking to someone with a very low IQ. I personally will not waste my time speaking with someone I know can not understand what I am saying. Walking away with my head held high, feels so much better than walking away with my head hung low.

Of course you can be offended. I was offended by someone on AB, but I just chalked it up to immaturity.

Forget them, here - I hope these gifts make it all better! *BIG HUGS*

I was bullied a lot at school when I was younger - mainly verbally but some physical abuse too - and I came to realise very quickly that people who resort to name-calling are immature (and probably always will be). It's hard to respect anybody who indulges in this puerile activity, and if I don't respect somebody, then I'm never going to be upset or offended by what they think or say.