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by janselot on February 9th, 2005

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Why don't rebound relationships work?

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  • by princessemmabelle on January 27th, 2007

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    Because using a person to get over another is not the right way to get off to a good start with them. People tend to talk alot about their exes when they aren't over them, even if the comments are negative the one who is the reboundee can feel like the rebounder has their ex on their mind just a little too much. There tends to also be alot of coparisons in the rebounders mind of the ex to the reboundee. Weather or not they voice these comparisons, the person who is basically being used can tell that the rebounder has something and someone else on their mind.

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    • So true!

      kdragonfly

      by kdragonfly on May 13th, 2007

    • This is True. I was a rebound relationship and she always compared me to her ex. It was exhausting.

      MOON_LIGHT_88

      by MOON_LIGHT_88 on April 8th, 2008

    • well i am the ex-of a rebounder,,he got into a relationship far to early and yes does compare the two of us,,in a lot of areas,,, he has told me,but not her
      the sad part is he is still dating her,,and she has no idea,,,so people do it the natural way,,,one day at a time and a lot of couarge.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on May 4th, 2009

    • Yes, I was in a rebound relationship, too..He kept coming back to her and to me.He was confused, going back and forth to his ex and to me.He kept telling me at his ex, negative side,the way she treated him..He kept telling me I am the better choice than her.His life with me was so calm and peace.His ex has 2 and 5 years old kids and no time for him.She dumped him fr not helping her in the household chores..But at the end, he went back to his ex leaving me wounded.Until now, i find hard to move and get over.

      Imeelee

      by Imeelee on October 27th, 2009

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