• Until you know it's definitely over, you probably don't know if yo were used.. If you meet "a real nice guy". You hit it off! "There's chemistry" (or so you think). Then you go out, AND he treats you like a princess (or better), THEN you give him what he wants: Money and/or sex; sex and/or money. THEN he basically "sucks the life" out of you - draining you of your money and emotions; AND THEN he doesn't return your calls, e-mails or doesn't respond to any of your texts, Chances are you were used. Women do it to guys, too. People like that don't have any morals or conscience. Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" Also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"
  • When he's cleaning the kitchen floor with your face?
  • His flatteries precede his request for some chores to be done.
  • If you are feeling more empty than full when you are with them.
  • Probably the same way guys know when a woman is using them. 1. When the relationship is 'selfish'. Everything is all about your partner, to the exclusion of yourself. 2. When what you can provide (money, sex, place to live, transportation, shoulder to cry on) is the center of their attention. 3. When the only time your partner cares to listen to you is just before hitting you up for something he/she needs. 4. Any obvious signs, like abuse (whatever the form), your partner tells you up front (yep, it happens). 5. His/her history. 6. When your family and friends care enough to talk to you about such things. 7. Your 'gut feeling' is telling you. Don't discount this. Remember, all these things, and more, are only SIGNS of being used by your partner. (Except the one where he flat out tells you). They are symptoms that you need to follow up on to find out for sure.
  • If he wants to have sex without giving anything a marriage proposal.
  • If he wants you to do things for him.
  • you dont always know

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