What is your opinion of a man leaving his wife for another man, after 10yr marriage and 2 children?
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Mrs.Newton the cookie lady
ANSWERS: 28
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I'd think he's gay.
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I think that if he was not happy in his marriage he could not make his wife and family happy. He made a choice, probably hurtful for his family but for their best interest in the long run.
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An entire Army could not have prevented him from coming out. You need to move on. The jury is still out on why homosexuality exists. At least it wasn't a girl he left you for. And now your kids will have two daddies. Smile :)
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Disgusting and very sailor oriented.
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Scum of the earth.
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He is not strong in love. How can he changed his mind after so many years. Did he not love his kids anymore? If yes then he is a very selfish guy and u should be relief not to be attached to him longer.
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I think that he realized he's gay then it's the best thing for all involved. It doesn't mean he never loved his wife or that the marriage wasn't good.It means he realized that he could never be what he needed to be to make the marriage successful.
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That this man tried really REALLY hard to be what he wasn't and after a very long time and alot of battles within, decided it was time to come out and live to be who he really is. It's sad that he couldn't be the gay man he was to begin with, but now healing can begin.
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Wow, what a shock and so painful I'm sure. Confusing for the children too. But you know there's not much you can do about his decision. It is nothing that you did or didn't do, so don't get stuck in the "if I had only" syndrome. Focus on the children and be glad he is not putting you in danger for STD's or AIDS.
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Listen I have someone who did the same..she is raising the kids, the father and friend get the kids and treat them wonderfully..He gives his child support plus buys them whatever they need...I think that she is mentally destroyed by him and hasn't been with anyone else for 8 years..Its betryal to her..if it had been another women she could have dealt with it better...good luck. Get his MONEY..
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it could also mean he is bi-sexual and he suddenly found his boy friend much hotter and sexier than his wife!
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its purely not fare...And also we don't no what happened b/w them...and also it depends on the persons' orientation
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He decided to be his true self.
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Mid life crisis? Personally, I'd go buy a new flashy car.
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I would be glad he moved on and became his "true self" but I would also be angry that he drug me into a relationship and brought our children into the mix if he had a hint earlier he may be gay. So it boils down to: did he or did he NOT know he was gay before entering a union that I would have taken very seriously. Time with the wrong person, is time you never get back.
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i think its horrible, nasty and mean BUT it'd be tight to stay with his wife if he's gay.. the sooner he splits up with her the better though, cause then she could start moving on and so could he.. if he stayed with her for ages it'd kill him and her when she found out. its just tight on the kids though. i spose it depends on their ages. cara x
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Emm he is gay, good for him that even after 10 years he is able to come out. Thank god that he didn’t waste his whole life on trying to be straight. Hope he is finally happy. Come on people… it’s not that we are going to have another chance….. Take the risk, live you life, have fun for once with your own rules.
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I feel for him and for his wife and children. He probably has denied the fact that he is gay for his whole life, which sucks, and he feels probably a lot of hurt to have to hurt his family so much. At the same time, I feel more for his family. They are the victims of the lie that he's been living, with them as an excuse. That's horrible and they must feel a lot of pain and anger from that. It's a horrible situation!
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I think he is extrememly selfish. if he was gay he ought not have tried to cover it up by having a family and hurting and ruining innocent peoples lives. his wife did nothing wrong, her only flaw was that she ever believed his lies. im sorry what he has done is unforgivable and most cowardly. what is the difference in 'coming out' when your young, or older? either way the truth has come out and he could have saved his poor wife a ton of heartache had he have been honest to himself in the very begining..
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The same as it would be of a man leaving wife and kids for another woman.
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I wouldn't think anything about him :D
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should of let the guy let him have his booz other than that he must be high lol
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i feel bad for those kids!
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well the husband must have had feelings for men before he was married and instead of screwing up his wifes and kids life should of been honest with himself ,i know alot of gay men get married to try and fit in because they dont want to be gay but to wait 10 years,a wife and 2 children later is disgusting and very selfish but mind you he is not the one left on his own to explain to 2 children is he ,im sure he'll get paid back and might be sorry because his children will feel let down and wont want to know him ,in my eyes hes got alot of explaining to do beacuse although i wouldnt have him back i would want to know why .
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fine to be honest, least ur honest to admit it, better to go and not to stay and prolong the agony, good luck
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Simple, he's a fag!
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Liberal's progress.
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It's happened many times and hopefully people accept gays and not force them to live a lie. I don't believe homosexuals want to live that way or hurt any one let alone be hurt themselves by denying who they are out of fear. Fear of losing family, friends, jobs or their lives. I know two men who lived that way. Fortunately for both their kids turned out just fine. Open mined, kind, and loving people.
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