ANSWERS: 39
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I dont, I prefer and "equal" playing field
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Nah, I like it.
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If only more girls did, for some reason it usually falls upon the guy to do so. guys can be just as shy as girls, so go ahead.
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Not at all, it is percieved as a compliment. I speaking for my self percieve it as the first move
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NO ways.. it feels good... well mostly
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Nope, that's how I met my wife...
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Nah, I like to talk to people. It also kind of depends on what she says. If she says "Hi, I'm [name]" that's not weird at all. If she says "Angry ticks fly out of my nipples" or "I want to have your abortion" I would think that was kind of strange.
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I hope not. I do that all the time. Not just to guys, though. I am just an overactive socializer :)
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No I quite like it, takes the pressure off.
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Well, first off, I am not a man. Can I still answer? :) I was the first to approach my husband and since we've been married now for over 5 years, I think I can honestly speak FOR him and say I don't think he thought it was that weird. He likes my "independent and fearless streak" per se.
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This guy doesn't! He actually feels honored.
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I usually like to start the conversations myself. However, a change of pace once in a while is appreciated.
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It's not weird. It's a relief, actually.
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I like it but it usually takes me a while to warm up to them. I think a lot of people think I'm cold because of this.
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As long as the girl isn't annoying, then I'm cool with it.
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i would think it would be weird if anyone you didnt know just randomly started having a conversation with you
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Sometimes a bit awkward, but do-able i suppose =).
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Do girls find it weird?
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Well, I'm not a guy so I can't answer. BUT, if the question were switched around. *Switch-a-roo* "Do girls find it weird when guys randomly go up to them and start a convo?" I don't!!! It's actually a huge relief for me. 'Cause I'm not one to start conversations with guys.
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Well, for me, I can't talk to someone if they won't talk back. So if a girl comes up to me and just starts conversation,that tells me, "Hey, you can talk to me dude." So I'd say for the most part, we don't find it weird. Its just more traditional for a guy to aproach the girl first.
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Yeah...Really...Like...I mean...What kind of a normal person would ever do that? After all, it's not like we're social animals or anything
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Maybe thats why so many people just look at me like I'm insane...
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i would rather like that actually, now that im back in america it seems like everyone doesnt know how to talk to eachother, ive been living in germany where people are way more open to conversation and where you can talk to a girl without everyone assuming you want to get in her pants. I wish more women were like that but it wont ever happen because most of the retard guys here in the states automatically think a girl want to fuck them just because she talks to them.
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That's how i met the love of my life!! He was a SERIOUSLY hot guy who was just serving me in the supermarket and i literally just started talking about random nothingness and he just kind of joined in - now it's a whole love thing!!!!!
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well since im a shy guy, id think its weird that a girl would come up to me and start a convo i mean id be sayin "y me, the hot guys are over there!) but then i'd just go with the flow and feel a bit lucky in a way
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A convoy? Like grabbing the next person in line by the hips and dancing out the door?
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Yes if we are average looking or you arent trying to sell something to us
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If a girl took the time to come and talk to me.........I'll make sure we have a good conversation!
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No of course not I talk to random people all the time but if shes a total stranger Ill probably think shes interested.
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No, we love randomness! I do at least.
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On the contrary, I think most guys would like that. I know I do, even if sometimes I don't have a clue on what they are talking about. It's just the great feeling that they shared something with you.
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Not at all. I love it. it saves me from going up to them to talk.
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i dont but my dumb friends might
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If the conversation is genuine and not merely a ploy to talk to him, then no, because guys like to talk too.
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Yea because most women walk around with their nose high and they are just too cold and mean to do that. Those sensitive, caring, emotional characteristics is a front.
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nah im a friendly person so i like it when people randomly come up to me and start talking. especially if its a cute girl
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Nah...especially if the girl is cute then it can be kinda flattering :)
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I think that depends on the girl who starts the conversation.
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for me a little.
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