Im 16 n i had gay sex but now i regret it badly.what should i do?
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Baqir Phoenix
ANSWERS: 11
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It's not the end of the world. You're 16, not 46! You're experimenting, growing and learning about the world. People do a lot of different things until they discover who they really are..some of us never do discover who we really are. It's not awful..you didn't kill anyone! Happy Saturday to you! :)
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I guess if it wasn't your thing, then don't do it again. There is nothing wrong with finding out. So it wasn't your thing, no worries. Try the opposite sex now.
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Well, first of don't do it again if you feel it wasn't for you. Also you are young, if this person is alot older than you and tha age of consent where you live is 18 then perhaps you might think of telling a parent/teacher/peer if you feel you were pressured into it. If you are thinking you are gay but you just didn't want sex with the person you had the encounter with, get some advice on sexual issues. There are phone lines open so you can have an open minded chat about things. Just because you had a gay encounter doesn't make you gay, means you tried something new and you didn't enjoy it. Don't put un-needed pressure on yourself, you have time to figure this out. Also, be safe, use condoms and if you didn't this time get tested.
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I regretted my first times, with a male, and with a female. I think everyone gets this guilty feeling the first couple of times. I was around the same age when I had my first experience... But having said that... I feel I was way too young and was overwhelmed by it all. I think you should wait a bit =)
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i regretted my 1st time with a guy too, then I went back to girls. I was married for a long time but realized I was really gay. Gay sex is good now. You have to do what works for you. You are 16 and most likely not ready for sex anyway. Wait a while and experiment again, you will find what makes you happy.
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Dont worry about it, you are just sorting out your sexuality. Please dont stick labels on yourself or burden yourself with guilt based upon what society is 'telling' to do or not to do. You may turn out to be, gay, straight or bi-sexual and you know what/ any of the above is cool It's a great tradegy that some people live a lie..somehow i dont think that is going to happen to you, you seem open and strong enough to explore your options Good for you my friend.
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first of all u need to ask urself what exactly u regret was it that u didnt physically enjoy the sex or is it that ur finding it hard to cope with the feelings after i have a friend who after his first encounter with a guy got really upset coz he then felt the reality of his sexuaity sink in and realsed who he reall was the best advise i can give sleep with who u want when u want regardless of colour creed or gernder so long as ur safe with regard to ur health are careful not to hurt anyone else are compleetly comfortable with the arangment and are prepared to accept the consequences wich u should seriously think about before hand so long as u stick to that u cant go wrong what i would say though is that u didt have gay sex for no reason at all there is definatly something there that needs exploring and experimenting and exploring is something u should enjoy and if u turn out to be gay straight or bi then so be it the main thing is ur happiness have fun u sound like the kind of nice guy who deserves some
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Make sure you dont do it again if its not something you enjoyed. There is no point holding onto regrets. I have done it for 2 years and I am letting go. Im sure it will take some time. But just try do better k? :)
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y oucan't go back and un-do it... so seeing as though you regret it now I suggest moving forward ... putting the past in the past and not doing it again.
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Put it down to experience and get on with your life.
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Forget the past and start a new sexually life...you were just trying something different...you did nothing wrong
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