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Not all women feel that way Keithold. I have already been the good looking brainless route and I would much rather have someone with substance.
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The same reason why a guy can't look a big busted woman in the eyes, lol jk we do love you guys for your minds especially yours Keith
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Men only have 2 heads, and in most cases, they think with the lower one...
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We can't? I didn't get that memo. My hubby will be sad to hear that I don't love him anymore.... Nah, I think if you find an intelligent, kind hearted, not shallow women then they will love you for your brains. I can't stand stupid ppl, lol, so that wouldn't work for me.
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I love my man for his everything, including his mind.
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Because most of them are too busy trying to get us in bed... I mean, damn, just give us a break, just a few hours? We need to sleep too, and, and eat. And check the mail, and work on stuff. We arent all sex machines you know! Ladies, please, try to think about our minds once in a while, would ya?
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I thought I did. Maybe that's why I kept getting rejected for most of my life.
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A guy's mind is the #1 thing that attracts me to them.
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They usually focus too much on looks. I don't blame them, growing up in this "appearance obsessed" society. People of both sexes should appreciate the mind more----because when we grow old, the looks will fade and all that's left is our wisdom. :)
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Because it would be a short lived love. After they figure out we are, eat sleep sex, not necessarily in that order
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do we have any?
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Because we constantly stare at their tits?
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I love my man for his mind. He is very intelligent. :)
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This one does! :D
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i do love men for thier minds.
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i love my man for his mind and everything else besides
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I would prefer they mind our bodies!
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Because we are shallow and basic, we only want a man to be a sperm donor.
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I love mine for his. I can't speak for all women of course, but if he were brainless there would be no long term attraction whatsoever. To me, the two most important things a man has are his mind and his heart. Being physically attractive is a mere bonus. I have dated guys that would be considered "eye candy', but once they opened their mouths (8 times out of 10) all bets were off.
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Because our minds are depraved.
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I knew my husband for many, many years (I met him when I was 7 years old) before we ever dated. Although it helped that he was good looking, I believe I loved him long before we dated and the reasons I loved him (and still do) are that he's intelligent, kind, humorous and easy to be with.
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I love a man you can have an intelligent conversation with.
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Thats what i like the most - an intelligent man!!!! It helps when you can go to him for advice!!!
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They can, if what's in our bank account passes the pre-qualifier.
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LMFAO! Riiiiight! People love for almost as many reasons as there are people, and that's unlikely to change in the forseeable future.
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Because our minds aren't in our wallets.
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The non-shallow women do.
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GIRLS KNOW THAT BOYS & MOUSE ALWAYS IN SEARCH OF HOLES...!!!
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I love my man for his mind and heart.:-)
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umm....idk about everyone else.. but I love my man for his -mind -heart -values -wicked guitar skills. lol -sexy grunge style there are many things we love about men but the mind is very important.
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I love women for their minds. Am i normal?
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Actually, I go for the voice first, and have to talk to someone at least 3-4 times before we'll go out. It's a 2-way street, Gentle Knight, and not all men are looking for women with brains: that's why they're *looking* and not talking...
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Some of us do :)
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Get real men are animals the only think with there lower head. Sex is on the brain all day long. They think if they have alot of sex it will prolong there life..hahahah
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I would, mind is vital...
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hey,not all girls ei..hehe me,i wouldnt say yes to a hot guy who is too dumb to talk with,or has no good perspectives in life.i'd rather go with a very unattractive man with good outlooks in life,and is intelligent enough to talk with.
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we do! well....i do... i'm attracted more to the man's mind than i am to the body, and thats the truth! :)
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some of us do, dont judge us all by the same token
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What about vise-versa?
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If they didn't, I'd never get a woman :) /well, other than with my dashing good looks. //*COFbullsh*tCOF*
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if you're chasing after shallow women, then you are chasing after the wrong kind. get a nerdy girl
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This question makes a basic assumption that is incorrect, so I cannot answer it. Now if you asked are there any women who do love men for your minds, I could say yes, I married a man for his mind.
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They are too busy thinking about sex.
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I think women love men for their minds..the real question is why can't men love women for there minds instead of their bodys...
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Because then the dumb girls with big boobs would be lonley? Good question tho, I think it's cos they don't want anyone to be smarter than them, a gender-wide complex, prahaps?
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I already do.
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i do!
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Because you've got it all covered up with a hat!
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An intelligent man can be VERY CAPTIVATING! Sure I must confess I do like looking at men in shorts, but that’s just eye candy. BUT An intelligent man is COMPLETELY INTOXICATING!! …Listening to his speak can be Very Arousing and Exhilarating!!!!
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I cannot love a man without a good mind. It drives me crazy to sit beside a gorgous man while knowing he is an idiot.
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I do!...the problem is...where are the one's with good minds?
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It's were a man's mind goes about every 15 seconds that we can't keep up with lol
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Souls matter more than mere minds. Then again, brains can be quite sexy . . .
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I don't think people fall in love with a mind. I appreciate a wise mind, but I love a kind heart and a great sense of humor. Body isn't too important, I'd place it below brains or at least a thinking considerate man.
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I do! I have! My guy isn't the brightest bulb in the box, but he has an insatiable appetite for learning new things. I love that in him.
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I couldn't love a man, if I didn't love his mind.
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I dont thik that holds true to all women...
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I do, its like an aphrodisiac.
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you definately have your genders confused!!!!!
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There are women that do..... - Funnily enough it makes us seem more attractive too. Go figure..... :P
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Some women do, but because we live in a "physical world" where "looks" takes precedence over intelligence, kindness, sincerity, etc., a lot of women go for what they see first----a man's physical appearance. Same thing with us men. We tend to go for beauty and sexiness first, and ignore the fact a woman may be mean-spirited or selfish. It is this blindness that gets a lot of men (and women) in big trouble, and as the saying goes, "history always repeats itself"!
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The penis is more accessible.
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i would melt if a guy remembered something that i said... like something i thought wasn't a big deal b/c it would show that he is just as thoughtful as i am.
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This question cracked me up, because I love my husband's mind - except when he corrects others in public because "being right& correct" is more important to him then the "manners" of not embarrassing a friend. (a really intelligent person can correct someone in a non-humiliating way) Good thing I'm still here, since his friends don't like to be in his company any more. As for women, most value manners over words.
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who said we dont?
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They don't ?!?! ...I thought they did :)
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Our minds don't pay the bills and they aren't 9 1/2 inches long.
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they do. it just so happens that theyre loceted in our crotches. they also like guys with bigger "minds"
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we do....I do.... i love my man MOST for his AMAZING mind...just so happens that the mind controls the body ;)
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most women are gold digging ,shallow hoes
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Because when you ask questions like this you prove you have no mind!
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Well, people can be different at different times. Also, Just as guys, girls want what they don't have. So I think you can figure it out from there.
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i love my man for his mind, ha may not be the best looking but i still love him because he is so sweet and kind
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Some do. Ever read about Phryne? She is one of history's famous courtesans. She was so wealthy she offered to pay for the rebuilding of the walls around the city of Thebes. Phryne set her price according to what she thought of the man who wanted her. She once charged a king whom she utterly despised so much that he had to institute a special tax on his people to replenish his treasury; on the other hand, she once gave herself to a philosopher whose mind she admired for nothing.
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Why cant men love women for their minds also?
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...We can, but we need to be with those other guys first to learn to really respect the men with the minds. Or...it could also be that yeah your smart...but lol dont bore us with something we really arnt interested in. Strike an interesting convo. Besides it might not be "women"...but "ignorant, or dumb"...women dont love men for the minds...cuz they dont understand a man who thinks...lol, cuz they cant think themselves. But naw...theres women out there who can love you all the same....and prolly more. Just sometimes...EXPRESS WHATS ON YOUR MIND more... not knowledge wize...but...emotional wize....get it?
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I guess for the same reason men cant love women for their mnds!
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im a girl and i dont judge boys by the way they look. i look into the mind and personality.
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I'd say because we are more than mere mind, keithold. We are also body and spirit. So why would you want them to love us for anything less than we are??
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Because if a woman loved a man for his mind, then there would not be very many relationships, because most women see men as smart asses, and not very sharp in the mind.
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i do :)
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Oh joy, more gender-enveloping questions! Since, obviously, all women (and men) are exactly the same. I'd say I love my boyfriend for the whole of him, not just a part.
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I find a lot of women are just as shallow as men when it comes to looks. If you don't have the right "image" then many times they don't even give you a chance (not that you were looking for one). Before you utter a word you get put down. I find that only a few women in this world truly like you for your mind and not your "image". People stereotype you before you even say a word. But I must add, it's usually the insecure people who judge you before you open your mouth. They want status symbols more than the right match. They want too much in my opinion. To think that most girls want other things other than "image" needs to be debated.
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Some men just have a dirty way of thinking, women get mad when guys don't know what they want In life... There are some guys that just like to play mind games, just like women do and that's mostly when the problems occur. Sometimes It's hard for women to trust some guys =)
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I always go for intelligence and other mental qualities first. I'm not sure whether you implying women go for money too much or looks. I don't tend to go for looks first and foremost. I think women do tend to go for men with power and/or money because they are looking for a man who can support them which is only natural.
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I love an intelligent man/men. But in reality the reason women don't love men for their minds is the same reason men don't love women for their minds. We're visual creatures first.
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well, they do, but not they kind of thing YOU might consider a good mind e.g. badboys and women , rich guys and women(apparently rich guys are more interesting people for some women...wtf?) etc like smoke and fire, where one is the other is never too far
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we would love to. but how can we when so many men don't like to talk about their feelings?
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When men prove that they know how to use them, we will!! Take care.
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Bcuz Men don't Love Women for their minds either don't u think !! haha,,but it's not true that we dont love men for their minds!!
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