ANSWERS: 21
  • Hard to say, unless I heard the tone of his voice, or spotted some drool hanging out of his mouth or something. Unless it was lecherous or creepy, I would just accept it at face value as a nice compliment and forget about it. Also depends on the context of his overall demeanor toward you. If he's always saying stuff like this, I'd watch out. If it was an isolated incident, he probably genuinely meant it and that's actually kind of sweet.
  • Compliments come many forms. If he gave the compliment as just a simple innocent one then I would be flattered.If there was an innuendo attached then yes I would feel weird! Married or not!
  • No. I'd feel great knowing someone still thinks "I've got it goin' on!"
  • It depends on how he said it. It depends on how he looked at you. Was he eye-raping you? Was his mouth hanging open? Did he have his hands a little too "deep" in his pockets, when he said it? So many questions SaraSmile, and yet so.....few.....answers. Provocative! LOL!
  • I am quite careful about how I make compliments at work. Things are allowed here in Vietnam which are not allowed in America, yet women are women and I treat them with respect. As a man, it would probably bother me.
  • Depends... just take a neutral stand and tell him "Thank you" and leave it at that, if it becomes a regular thing then i would get worried.
  • Probably not. I might just take it as a compliment. I don't think I would jump to conclusions about any hidden meanings in a situation like that.
  • I would just take it as a compliment unless he gave me reasons not too.
  • Funny, but if another woman complimented you on how great your suit looked you would say thank you and probably think her a nice person but if a man (an married at that!) says the same thing it is viewed with suspicion. Perhaps he was feeling good and wanted to pass the good feelings on and make someone else's day happier?
  • No it would not bother me but I would immediately answer "oh, my husband says the same when I wear this suit", I bet you after an answer like this the guy will turn away and go. Regards
  • he's just giving a compliment......what's so wrong about that.......(even i know that .... cuz he know's you're hot, sara, babieeeee) ..... and he's definitely not a hater...LoLzzz.
  • That's pretty ballsy since he must know you work for your Father (I'm assuming his boss). Well, I wouldn't necessarily think he was trying to start up anything sexual or anything. I mean, I imagine having someone as beautiful as you are around...it must be hard to keep one's mouth shut about it. That's all it was. Well, that's probably all it was.
  • Take a compliment SassySara! Now...if he was eye humping and touching himself...Uck. I'd be bothered ;)
  • It should bother you only if he has a small penis.
  • Let's see. You are a beautiful young woman and he noticed. He is married but he is not dead. If he just complemented you and didn't really do anything else it shouldn't be a big deal.
  • I would be creeped out for one specific reason: He didn't say the suit looked fantastic on you, you looked fantastic in your suit. There is a big difference to me. However, he may not mean to be creepy. Guys can be very socially inept. I usually just ignore comments unless they cross way over the line (e.g. your breasts look fantastic in that suit).
  • I would say, since he is married, he figuired it was a legitimate compliment. He probably likes to see people dressed up. It complements the working environment when employees dress up. If you wore a tie to work, he would probably say you looked great. Your fellow emps might hate you for changing the dress code. Or they might say you are aiming for management. But just a tie, says alot about a person and the company they work for.
  • I tell a couple women from time to time in my office that they look good if they're wearing something stunning. I'm not hitting on nor flirting with them.
  • Where did you get the suit? Hopefully he was just being nice, good luck, I would feel unconfortable at work, thinking what must this guy be thinking.
  • Take it as a compliment. Some guys are just nice. If we don't say anything you complain. If we say you look good today, you say, what, I didn't look good yesterday? We can't win. Just take some things at face value.

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