If you usually use a direct approach, the wording in your question would be fine. If you want to soften it, tell him that you've been unhappy for some time now, and that you need some time and space apart from him. Tell him that in that time, you'd like him to think about how he treats you. HTH. Good luck. Try to let us know what you wind up doing, and how it works out for you.

"You treat me like sh*t and I don't want to be with you any more." If he treats you badly, why spare his feelings?

Tell him that he treats you like shit and you dont want to be with him, and if you have to change your number do it......get on with your life

Let him read this ,and he'll get the message

you need to "Woman Up" and tell him. the longer you wait the harder this will be.

Write him a letter and say you are unhappy about the way he is treating you eg. "I don't like it when you break dates with me so you can hang out with your mates". If he doesn't realise what he's been doing, it will give him a wake-up call and maybe at least you'll get an apology. If he ignores it or says you are complaining about nothing or tries to make it all your fault, then say you're breaking off the relationship. You certainly deserve to be treated better.

my boyfriend treat me like shit and we have only been together for 4 months. He was super for the first 3 weeks, no red lags, nothing. Then after 3 weeks, small things would set him off. he is very wealthy and i am your basic gal. he wanted me to leave my below average apartment and move int his elaborate house. He wants me to start a baby with him and says he loves me all the time and cant wait to marry me. However ... he is a very busy business man and I find he NEVER has time FOR me nor for the relationship. If I bother him at the wrong time, he calls me rude and inconsiderate. If I ask to spend some weekend time together, he claims he is busy getting his house built and then always has meeting to go to. he carries 3 cells phone which are always ringing and texting, etc. Yes, he has a lot on the go and a lot to offer a woman financially, What he wants in exchange is more me to be at his beck and call and only be there when HE wants me , not when I would like to do something together. When we do spend the little amount of time together, it is me cooking dinner for him while he relaxes on the couch and plays online poker, I am expected to either make us dinner, clean up or just sit and watch him play. If I ever choose to do what I want, I am called, selfish, unreliable, and rude, I don't need his money nor his home. I really just wanted to be together and build a life together. But I am seeing that it is all about his terms and my terms don't matter. In his life, he see's my job and my high education as insignificant in comparison to what he does and how important he is. He tells me that if I would stick by him, we will have a beautiful life together to do whatever we want to do. I'm confused and heart broken in the same. I love him yet hate him. He makes me feel insignificant. I don't dare call anymore to ask if he wants to do something cause if i do, he says he is in a meeting and im rude for calling and interupting (i didn't know he was in a meeting on a sunday morning. So, i wait and wait for his call, usually at the end of the day when he wants me to come over and cook him some dinner. We don't have sex ofter. when we did it when HE wants it which is only once a week, if lucky. Here are my thoughts ... I am attracted to the lifestyle he constantly tells me that we will have together, yet he wants me to sign a prenup if we move in together and also wants me to pay $1500 to live in his new house. He know my living situation is minimal. I make less than 45,000 a year and he makes over a million a year. I have walked away from him so many times and after a few days, he texts or calls, saying I miss you and invites me over. I go, because Im weak. But then I get degrated, insulted once again then the tears start, he turns and says I love you , I want to marry you and have babies with you. We are actually trying for a baby. When i met this man i was on top of the world. Strong, independant, very happy and confident. Now I feel weak, desperate, not worth anything and wondering if at 40 would there even be a man who would want to be with me. He tells me I am getting to old to consider children. Can someone please help me with some words of wisdom. I am very lost right now, hurt and confused. When im with him, i love him so much until he degrades me, then i just leave with my head held, days go by then he contacts me with "i miss you" or "stand by me and we will have an amazing life together"

You tell him outright. If he does, as you say, treat you like shit. Then there is no reason why you shouldn't be blunt and honest about what he is like with you. +5