ANSWERS: 41
  • Only if he does it constantly with the same girl - otherwise, not hugely.
  • I sure would...that is being disrespectful. What he does when I am not around I can't control...but in front of me?...see ya!
  • I might feel a few pangs of jealousy, but it passes.
  • Yes, I get extremely jealous when my husband flirts with another woman. Unfortunately with reason.
  • oh my gawd do i ever...aaahhhhh can't help it!
  • well since I am a guy lets switch this question around. If my g/f was being downright bold and straightfoward in her flirting with another man then I would be annoyed to say the least because it is disrespectful to me. However if it is low key and harmless I see nothing wrong with it.
  • nah, just kinda sad. but he's not my boyfriend, so he can do what he pleases.
  • Being a tad flirtacious could get your bill at a restuarant lowered so would it bother me? No. I am the one who is leaving with him. Sorry, I'm just not into the jealousy thing. It's not worth it.
  • Nope. My philosophy is if they can get him they can have him cause I never had him to begin with and therefore I don't want him ;o)
  • we have not seen each other for more than a week, and we've been dating for about a month now. then i was so excited to see him last night, but he was watching sports, and commenting on the female player saying things like that's my girl. i felt jealous and at the same time devalued, but felt stupid to say something because it was just tv. then he asked me what superpower i want if i could have one, i said flying. he said he wants to be an invisible to watch girls in a lockerroom. what an asshole to tell a girl something like that. so, see, seems like none of these things were serious, what do you think? am i overreacting? don't you think it was disrespectful?
  • I am far too old, secure, and possessed of self confidence for that type of jealousy. So, no. Plus, nothing can shock me at this point as far as men are concerned. Once you've caught a cheating spouse in the act. . .flirting seems harmless.
  • Flirting? I can't even tell when a guy is hitting on me or being friendly with me. My boyfriend or my friends or my siblings point it out for me. I don't think I could tell if my boyfriend was flirting with some other girl, either, though. I know he loves me and wouldn't cheat on me, so that is what matters to me.
  • Not usually...unless it's constantly with the same girl or an ex...and i have my own reasons about ex's, not just because there was a history...but yeah, if it's with their ex it makes me a little uneasy
  • If I'm in a committed relationship with that guy then, yes, I would be jealous but that would tell me that he's probably not as into me as I think or he wouldn't be flirting with someone else. See ya...... If it was just some guy I liked but we weren't "together" then I wouldn't have a right to be jealous about it I suppose.
  • Unfortunately yes. I nearly murdered a girl last night for flirting pretty obviously with the guy that I have pretty intense feelings for. I didn't know the girl. She came along with one of the other people in our group. She kept running her hands over his leg, hugging him for no reason, and making him take pictures with her. He didn't flirt alot back, but I think he enjoyed the attention. And he was kind of playful with her, hitting her in a silly way with crumpled up peices of paper and stuff....He later commented that she was weird and he thought there was something wrong with her..like some special needs or something. But if he finds her so weird, why act all playful with her like that? Then at the end of the night, she told him he could spend the night at her place if he ever wanted to. WTF? She'd only known him for like 4 hours. I wanted to rip the hair out of her head. He didn't even respond when she said that, but it made me so jealous to see some other girl all over him! And it was worse, bc he wasn't giving me the amount of attention I wanted.He's not my boyfriend, which almost makes it even harder. Because I am unsure of where I stand with him, it causes my jealousy to get outta hand. We've been good friends for about 8 months and talk almost every day, hang out once maybe every 2 weeks. (Almost always just the 2 of us) But he doesn't make a move on me, just flirts ALOT, but not as much in a group). I feel like i get mixed signals.
  • Nah, I just join in with them.
  • Not usually, but I'm hurt that I found out today that the guy I like, and thought he kinda liked me, is totally interested in another girl. And, he made it so obvious, so I'd know for sure.
  • Oh dear I'm so terribly jealous.
  • no, he is a big boy..he can do what he wants. :)
  • I can be at times, but then again, if he isn't my exclusive boyfriend, then what right do I have to be jealous? He's single, and can do whatever he wants. But that doesn't necesarilly mean I won't act like a normal human being and be a little bit jealous.
  • I don't get jealous. I'm more hurt than anything.
  • More than anything, hurt. I'd be convinced that he doesn't like me, after all. But I'm not the type to get jealous. I just don't want to waste my time on a lost cause. If he already knows me well, there's nothing I can do.
  • Sure! Jealousy is really atrocious and vulgar but, I do sometimes feel that way.
  • damn I feel jealous of air touching his face!! I'm sick about it, I wish I never had to be like that..
  • I do get a little bit jealous, but I chose the man I married because he didn't flirt with other women. Future prevention and all that.
  • hell yes... but only lately, my last ex had me very jealous, and he did it on purpose.
  • Not usually..... But if it's the same girl...then yes.
  • Yeah, but it might be because I like the girl too. :-)
  • he's not dumb.
  • YES! i do! no lie here lol
  • of course, it just means that she like shim a lot.
  • Absolutely. I get jealous when he just looks at another girl. If he flirted with another girl, I would be much more than jealous!!!
  • YES!! I mean I know were not togather and all but still it gets to me but i'm not sure he exactly gets it that I like him but he's a big flirt and I tell myself that it's stupid to get mad cause he is flirting with other girls cause were not together. Hope I helped
  • YES god yes, I prefer to cheat on me instead of flirt and give attention to another girl infront of me
  • omg yes all the time!
  • yepp, i usually get very jealous, but nothing serious
  • I am a guy so I am going to turn this around. If my g/f wa flirting with someone I would watch and then tell her to either go invite him over and maybe back to the house for a 3some (as long as I do not have to touch him) or go over to him and I will see her in the morning.
  • Yeah I do....but I know that it will go away, so I grin and bear it. I also tend to find some flaw in the girl like flabby thighs and ask myself why on earth would he like HER! Haha, I laugh at myself.
  • No, I would get this as an invitation to flirt with other guys.And I would do it until the guy I like freaks out,and my only comment would be "I have the right to do everything that you are doing":-)
  • I would not get jealous I would feel deeply hurt, since me and my boyfriend have a close relationship and we care deeply for each other...

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