Your friend has issues and needs serious help. Think about it. If it was a guy who said he was obsessed with naked girls and spies on them, How freaky is that? It goes the same with girls.

I would have to agree with YOU and NOT your friend. Spying on guys and wanting to see them naked all the time is too dramatic and weird. I would rather just meet someone and get to know them, not automatically see them naked or even care about that right from the start.

It really depends on the girl-some like seeing guys naked some don't but dont worry at least when she's caught nobody will get mad just ask something like "was it big enough for you"

It's normal for girls to like looking at naked guys. It's human natrue. But spying can get her in serious trouble one day. I suggest that she satisfy her "needs" by looking in magazines or on the internet. Safely, of course.

i dont think that is ok realy that is wrong i think she has a problem and i thinnk you do care other whys you would not have asked.

I have been spied on twice (that I know of). 1) I can't say with 100% certainty but I've notice my female neighbor going slowly down her driveway when I'm in the shower... there's a window in my bathroom with vertical blinds. I swear she's looking at me, but I really can't tell for sure. 2) Once when I was cat-sitting at a friend's condo, I was staying there for a week, and I took baths/shower in the downstairs bathroom, which had a window that I couldn't close blinds all the way because of a lot of plants. It was night and the likelihood was slim that anyone was walking by. Well, so I thought. Turned out my friend's neighbor was keeping an eye on me while I was there that week and made videos of me showering/bathing! My friend ended up telling me about it. I told her I wasn't mad so that she'd show me the videos. I did feel weird about it... but I wasn't furious. It was flattering to have been watched. I was embarassed to sit and watch the videos with my friend but I wanted to see them. Something about just knowing what the videos featured. Just knowing there was a video was too much to wonder about. BTW, she must have been standing right outside the window!

I am all about the personality and character of a man. I mean there obviously has to be some sexual attraction, but I know I have a lot of friends male and female that is all they look at is the outside of a person. Its kind of sad. I have always told them. " The looks will only last so long. Will you still enjoy that person's looks when they are 50 and began to wrinkle and sag? But a person personality and character will last forever."

How old are you guys? When I was younger, we had pool parties every summer. We found a way to see into the pool house from the outside of the fence, so we watched the boys change out of their swimming trunks a lot... But if you guys are like 30...

I'm attracted to both (or all) facets of a man. What's on the inside AND what's on the outside. I am not attracted to being a peeping Jane to get my kicks. That's what the internet is for.