He could be doing both!! One thing for sure is he is not listening to you. If you do what he wants then you are doing something you aren't comfortable with and this is not good for you. do you really want to be with someone who treats you this way.

Your boyfriend could be bluffing, or thinking about cheating- you know him better than anyone else does, what does your heart tell you? If you love the guy, and he loves you back then you'll work it out. If not then it wasnt meant to be. If he really loves you, he will respect your wishes. After all- it is you who would have to suffer the consiquences.

He could cheat. However, you can't allow him to manipulate you. You're making the right decision and if he can't respect that decision, then he doesn't love nor respect you enough. Although, I firmly believe that you're better off without him since pre-marital sex is wrong.

He doesn't sound like he has much respect for you. He's trying to make you do something with your body that you're not happy with (take birth control) yet he isn't prepared to take a simple step to protect you. It sounds like he wants you to take the responsibility for contraception to protect him from having to fork out Child support, but not willing to take steps to protect you from any diseases he may be carrying. If he's trying to manipulate into sex you don't want to have, for whateveer reason, then he;'s not someone who is going to respect you in the long run. He's trying to frighten you into something you don't want to do- I'd tell him that if he wants to get with someone else who doesn't have the self-espect you do to go right ahead, and not let the door hit him on the ass on the way out. You don't need someone like this in your life. Find someone who will respect what you want to do with your body, and care about you enough to want to protect and re-assure you. Someone you are compatible enough with that they are willing to wait until you are ready to have sex, without pressurizing or manipulating you into it. A word of warning though- if you are going to have sex and don't want children its a very good idea to use both birth-control AND condoms. All forms of contraception have a small potential for failure, an doubling up is the best way to reduce this risk.

He is a loser for threatening it. You are obviously not a human being to him, more he treating you like a piece of meat. Whether he is bluffing or chating or both, he isn't worth your time.

Look, if he really wants to avoid pregnancy he'd better be using a condom with EVERY girl he's with, including this other chick. Birth control pills are not absolute and the girl can always forget to take it. He is also risking STDs every time he has sex, some of which can be incurable and/or fatal. In other words, this is a BS excuse and he's trying to manipulate you into having sex without a condom. If you don't want to do it, he shouldn't pressure you. Dump him. Also, guys who refuse to have sex without a condom are, in general, idiots who may very well be spreading STDs. Dump him. Also, you should look at what your birth control options are and decide which work for you, because this issue is certain to come up again in any sexual relationship you encounter. If you don't want to take The Pill for health reasons there are patches and implants coming on the market. If you have a moral objection to chemical contraception but not to barrier methods like a condom, there are barrier methods for girls to use (look into the sponge, for instance). If you're mature enough to be having sex you should be mature enough to figure out how to prevent pregnancy on your end. Do some research. You'd also better be thinking of how to prevent STDs for *yourself*, which is why it's a good idea to make the guy wear a condom no matter what else you're doing to prevent pregnancy. Finally, good on you for refusing to cave into his pressure! You can do better than this guy.

Dump him if hes threatening to do this he isnt worth the time of day!!!How dare he treat you like this he should use a condom anyway wheater you are on birth control or not!!!!Let him get with some one else,your be laughing when they catch some thing,a lucky escape for you i say

personally i think if he acts like.. i dont think he could really love you, he should care about ur feelings not about what he wants,,(which is sex) me personally believe that u should wait till after marrige, but since you dont the case here is could he cheat,, yes he very possibly could, if he doesnt get what he wants quicky, i suggest you figure it out quickly if you love him.

sounds like you are against birth control because either you or he do not want to have children........you need to figure this out and talk about it....take care....Brian.....

Forget him, he's obviously an ass that has no respect for you or consideration for the relationship OR your health. Let him get some dumb chick knocked up if he wants, you're obviously not, and you're worth better.

he's a jerk, lose him.

If it was me I wouldn't cheat, but I might break up with you. When a relationship gets serious it's time to lose the condoms. If he threatened to get with someone else then you know he doesn't care about you and you should say fine and break up with him. Stand up for your beliefs. If he loved you he would respect them.

Stand your ground. If this guy is worth anything he will not pressure you into doing something against your will. Let me spell it out for you. Your boyfriend's a jerk. And apparently only wants one thing, well two. One is to control you. The other is your relationship on his terms. Your feelings and opinions don't matter.

loose him, ive known guys like this he doesnt want a girl he wants a holster, better off in your past.

I has tits and is bitching. 3 guesses? Yes, a bitch..

honestly any guy could cheat. he wants you on birth control because he doesn't want children or to use a condom which he should use especially if he is cheating. he just wants to feel the real thing with no condom but if you don't want to do it fire back and say you can go out and find someone as well who wouldn't care about using a condom. he wants to scare you into doing what wants and you shouldn't let him. its your choice so stick with it as long as you want until your comfortable enough to give him that prize he's trying so hard to win.

You are wise to say no sex without some kind of birth control.