• That's because: "Life is a mystery to be lived, not a problem to be solved." You can try to solve the mystery, but as a famous proverb says: "Curiosity killed the cat" to speak of the possibilities of interfering in other people's private life.
  • Some people like their privacy, remember the internet stores and tracks information.
    • Boola Boo
      A friend: I have never met his kids, or any family members. I know absolutely nothing about his personal life or even the kind or color of car he drives. or if he likes pizza all the little details that make up a persons personality. Friends usually share intimate details with each other about their life. He knows all about me.
  • Some people just don't trust other people. But in a loving relationship, secrets are not typically healthy.
  • Because you don't need to know.
    • Boola Boo
      I am afraid he would agree and that is very troublesome.
  • I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you.
    • Linda Joy
  • You ought to know! You're the one always posting cryptic messages on here and then not answering any follow up questions so we can figure out what the crap you're talking about!!! I can't even believe you would ask this question! Just because you and "your sweetie" does this doesn't mean the rest of the world acts like that... or puts up with it either!! I don't have time for games like that!! If you want help you need to effectively communicate the question and give the proper follow up information ... IF WHAT YOU REALLY WANT IS AN ANSWER!! Then again, if what you want is to play head games you can use this forum any way you please as long as no one is offended... That's how I would address someone who is being secretive and playing games. And if you don't confront them and address the issue you are joining in on the game and giving consent for it to continue, IMHO. I think most non confrontational people would just walk away from such a person if they didn't enjoy the game.

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