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  I need a opinion- my cousins flying back soon And my parents expect more From me considering that she kept talking shit about my whole family they want me to be an ideal kid Im trying my best Yet even when my mom wants me to do well She constantly says that I wont be able to improve every little thing I do they rate me on especially staying after school today thinking that all I was doing was fooling around It’s just exhausting They did this when I was younger and it stressed me out Especially since I was going through some in school conflict with other kids Whenever I did something well There was always another kid that did it better My parents comparing me to the kid I just gave up in middle school I couldn’t take the pressure And that’s what fucked me up It got worse in my mind I constantly judged myself it was all there my parents had already done their deed It’s just me against myself Which is why I’m so insecure I constantly compare myself to others Because it’s become a habit formed by my parents they still do it now they still compare me to every perfect student or kid I just wish they would give me a break my great aunts does the same thing they would bring up smart kids they knew whenever they came over I would be taking a break and listening to music And they’d say Hey this is a good time to study, since so and so is better than you Ive never once been praised for awards Both of them would just shrug it off Im tired Im sick of it its the first day of school and they’re already marking off a mistake my family in Vietnam thinks that all I do is play video games And that I’m a good for nothing piece of shit And that i’ll just kill myself one day And that my parents will be free from dealing with me Of course the only way they would know about how unstable I am is from my cousin and all of my family members think that I’m just doing it for attention “If you wanna die so badly why don’t you just do it” “give your parents an actual reward” “They probably hate you because you’re like this” and my mom throws
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me and is in love with me. However the reason for this breakup (48 hrs ago) was for us to work on ourselves, to get the ball rolling on our careers and after we do that she said she promised we’d try things out again. She said she has no time for me rn because her mom just went through a kidney transplant and she needs to focus on her plus she said she doesn’t feel like she loves herself enough and before putting all 100% into me she wants to do that for herself. We took a 2 week break and she told me she felt awful because she wanted to give me attention it’s just she needs to be strong for herself and show herself that she can be responsible. So she broke things off so she doesn’t feel like I’m waiting on the sidelines for her. She also wants time for herself to do yoga and make new friends. Our breakup wasn’t bad. We talked and talked and even had sex and took a last picture of us kissing before going our separate ways. She contacted me the next morning telling me she hopes work went good and we talked for a bit then the conversation ended and restarted again at night while we were both at work. She told me during the breakup that she felt uncomfortable in the relationship because when we argue or fight I’d be an a**hole and yell and cuss at her. I told her I wanna change for myself but also for us because I realized that it’s not cool of me to be yelling over dumb things. She said she doesn’t know if things will workout in the future between us but we will try again and as long we work on ourselves rn then only good things will come. Any advice would be helpful as this time for me is hard because we told each other we’d work through anything and that our relationship could go to hell and back and we’d still love each other. I know this is hell rn I just want things to workout again.
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  In my country the people are divided into two opposing parties. I am responsible for teaching my party members online to raise their level of education to surpass the other party. I heard from some people that a number of people from the other party would enter our educational program to sabotage and harm the reputation of our's. How to deal with them. Help me pleas i can not find a way to deal with it. Thank you
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  Hi...hoping you can help me out in a sticky situatio....fast Both my husband and I are retired and my brother has hinted for years that he would love to come for an extended visit. I had always put him off because of my busy work schedule but since I am now recently retired he thinks we can accommodate him for a week and have fun doing things. He wants to also relive our childhood by visiting the place he and I grew up...We now live in NJ and grew up in NY (Queens & Brooklyn). I really don't have interest in this but would go for a day trip to be nice...However we are not comfortable for him to staying with us more than a couple of days as we really want our privacy. How do I tell him he is only welcomed a couple of days without hurting him? He lives in California so he is traveling a long way for this visit and wants to come soon Thanks
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  18 about to turn 19. I moved in the US about 3 years ago. My mom came to the US when I was 2. She's been here for 17 years now. I grew up with my aunt who is amazing and who raised me really well. My mom never came back to visit in my country for 17 years. And she had her papers she Just didn't want to come I think. She was the one paying for my school when I was back home and gave me what I needed but I still felt like I needed her more than money. It's hard to live with someone you didn't spend your life with. At first we would be fighting and she will stay days without talking to me. My aunt never did that I mean as a teen we did stupid things but she would be mad and then everything will go back to normal but she will never stay a day without talking to me. So when my mom started doing that I was like shocked but I got used to it. My mom is the kind of person who will be spending her money on shoes clothes makeup (you should see her closet) she'll find herself not having money because that's what she spend it on. Sometimes she would ask me to do something for her and I'll be doing homework and I'll tell her to wait a little and 5 minutes after I'll go to do what she asked me and I'll find her doing it. Then she'll be telling me that I dont do anything for. Sometimes she'll ask me for money and I'll give to her and she will be saying that I have it to her but deep inside that's not what I want and that I have a wicked black heart. I'm used to all that now. My stepdad(who is amazing) I'm really close to him. I've just known him for 3 years and I talk to him more than I talk To My mom because he is more open minded. He told me that my mom came to her before and told her she wanted to go back to school so he gave her money so that she can go back but she didn't. She kept the money and came making up stories to him. Recently she said she wanted to be a caregiver so my stepdad gave him money again to do that but she didn't do it. 3 weeks ago I was ready to go to school. I'm in college now and I don't drive yet so
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  I had Sex Raww (Unprotected) With 2 guys In 2 days, now I'm Pregnant. The first guy came IN me and the second Used the "pull out" method. Can somebody help me Calculate this to see who the Daddy is? My last period was September 22, 2016. I had sex with the First Guy On October 12, 2016 He Came Inside Me But Said He Was Infertle but the tests were done When he was 19 and now he's 22, But the mourning after we had Sex my Stomach Was Cramping and My Head Hurt a little. The second Guy I had Sex with was on October 14, 2016 and He claims that he Pulled Out.... can somebody Help Me Calculate who is the daddy. I know it's "Hoeish" to have sex with more than one Man but I'm not in a Relationship and They Were both FRIENDS with BENEFITS.. can somebody help me Please? The first Guy I Like A lot so I'd Keep It and The Second One he's over age so that can't happen. I don't want to have a baby and tell one person they're the dad and then get DNA and Say I'm lying I don't want to look like a Hoe. Please help me with this!!! Thank you
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  I have a trip to Paris planned with my parents, girlfriend and her daughter (9yo). Recently we found out that my father has prostate cancer and will need to undergo radiation treatment. He wont be able to come. Should the rest of us still go? My father has my brother and sister who will be able to support him while we are gone. I am going to feel bad if we go without him but also if we don't go at all. My girlfriend, her daughter, and my mother are really looking forward to the trip and still want to go. Should we not go? My sister is giving my mom a hard time about it. The trip is in a month. Thoughts?
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