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It's very wrong. Wait 6 years.
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As a friend, no. Anything more than that is a bit inappropriate I think. At 12, you're lucky if you've even hit puberty.
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I am so glad I never had children.
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It is not wrong, but it is something that should not be.
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like no, love yes. I think you are taliking in a dating sense and that is wrong. You are much older, and wait for someone closer to you own age.
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It's right in the range of creepy.
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No. I was fairly developed when I was twelve. As long as s/he's not like a little kid, I'd say it's ok.
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you need to be shot before it's too late.
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Yes, it is wrong in my opinion. Twelve is way to young for a seventeen year old. That is just plain weird.
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dude if the 12 yr old is a guy then he is prolyl just barely hitting puberty!!! Dude there is something wrong with u in the head!
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As friends, of course not. The 12 year olds parents might mind it strange though.
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in that case, its not wrong for anybody to like anybody, (as long as it stays at that)
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No.
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No, it's not, and I'll defy anyone who says otherwise.
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You are ready to leave school and she is entering Middle School or Junior High. You are two completely different points in your lives. Find someone your age or older Mr. 17 because God forbid your friendship does end up with a sexual twist, you could be facing some very heavy penalty from the law.
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you still need to be shot. stay away. what, are you so warpped you can't find any one your own age?
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as a friend and mentor, i would say of course not. But remember time spent together will enventually bring other feelings. If the 17 year old is a boy and the 12 year old is a girl, remember that today most 12 year old girls don't look 12. they look more like young adults. So, i am just saying to be very careful with this special relationship.
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Whatever, stay away from my daughter.
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It could put the 17 year old into a very bad legal situation. There's no such thing as a strictly platonic relationship. Sooner or later sex will rear its beautiful head. I would stay away from this girl--it's too dangerous. Now, if this were two hundred years ago on the frontier it would be a diffent situation and a different answer.
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12 yr old = little kid 17 yr old = someone that's grown up and is going to be an adult soon. 17 yr old + 12 yr old = :(
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No, no it's not.
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Not only is it wrong, but it could get you ten to twenty if not life. And Bubba likes pediophiles for play things.
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Absolutely it is WRONG. Thank God my children are much older and very WISE when it comes to dating.
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What happened to the "not sexually" in parentheses at the end of this q. that was there when I saw it an hour ago? The answer is definately "YES"!
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In the U.S., we're talking about a senior in high school liking someone who's in the 6th grade. That's almost bizarre. Is it wrong? It's sure as hell not right.
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ha ha ha...
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In short, yes. There's more to be said but judging by the other answers, I'm sure you get the gist of it, Anonymous.
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Yes. Very, very wrong. If girls (or guys-whichever the case may be) your own age don't seem to like you, maybe you should ask yourself why instead of getting involved with children.
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first yes as hell its wrong but second why the heck would a senior like a 6th grader seriously.. im 13 and i think the 6th graders are a bunch of immature brats... so wats going in the 17 year olds head???
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It's not necessarily wrong. But it is a little odd. We're talking about a 7th Grader with a scenior...anyone in jr. high is still a little kid LOL. Why would anyone who is a year from adult hood want with a little kid.
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Yes it is VERY strange. In the UK the age of consent is 16 so you are sexually an adult and if you had anything to do with this CHILD you would be guilty of Statutory Rape or peodophilia whichever they decide to throw at you. I realise you are in the USA. and the age of consent is higher for you both, but that does not change the fact that it is wrong. For your own sake stay away and look for a girl of your own age .
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In my personal opinion, it might not be wrong, but it's not exactly right either. At 12 you are still a child, and possible just hitting puberty. Thats a little to young to even be thinking about being in a relationship. You are only in the 7th grade!! And at 17 you are a junior, or possibly a senior in high school and almost an adult, there is a very different mind frame between the two.
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AM I MISSING SUMTHING? THE POOR KID SAID LIKE HER, NOT BANG HER. NO HE SHOULDN'T DATE HER FOR OBVOUS REASONS BUT WHY BASH SOMEONE FOR LIKEING A PERSON. DIDN'T WE ALL HAVE A CRAZY CRUSH AT ON TIME IN OUR LIFE?
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It's okay to like someone - but you sure as hell better not act on that in any immoral way and you really need to be questioning your own motives for even thinking about or asking this question !
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Not only wrong, but illegal as well. in New Jersey, if an actor is at least 16 and a victim is under 13, the actor can be charged with statutory rape, rape of a child, child abduction, or a host of other things. A college bound Jr or senior is a whole lot different than an elementary schooler.
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depends on what you mean by 'like'!
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17 + 13 = 30 12 + 13 = 25 not now...lay off for 13 years. if u can't....<clears throat, looks around> where's my rifle
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if you are 17 and like a 12 year old that is NOT okay. it doesn't make any sense and should be stopped.
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yes its wrong.
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That's fucking sick. It is diffinitely wrong, seriously what 17yr old wants to date alittle 12yr old...
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WRONG
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It is not at all wrong to like a 12 year old. NObody can dictate who yo utake a liking to. However, we must take into account: how does the 12 year old like you YO ucannot attempt to physically contact inappropriately until the age of 16 legally in most countires.
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Yea, that's creepin' a bit.
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I agree with talim.
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Not only is it wrong, and twisted, but its also illegal. Choose someone your own age, and give the child a chance to be a child.
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yes. it is. its like a pedi. gross i would not want some 17 yr old likeing my 12 year old sister.
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hey that is almost the same with me... i am female and in grade 7 and i like a guy in grade 11 and he likes me.. i dunno bout anyone else but i think it is normal.
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It absolutely is wrong. What exactly is it that you two have in common? I would atleast give it 5 years... 12 is just too young
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Not only is it wrong, it's illegal yo...
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Yes that is wrong. The 17 yr old is about to be an adult and the 12 yr old is just about to be a teenager. Thats 2 different worlds. Let me guess the 12 yr old is a girl and the 17 yr old is a guy. If thats the case then that 17 yr old just want s to have sex. Either way if it's the other way around it's still wrong and they have no business together.
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There is only one reason for a 17 to hang out with a 12. And it is illegal. and disgusting.
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You use the word "like".That is fine.The level of relationship must be appropriate to the 12 year old,though. +4
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