• I dont think legally, well if you dont have sex. Hell I dated two 18 yr olds when I was 14 (not at the same time) and then I got back with one of them when she was 20 and I was 16.
  • Actually I think it is legal, since she's at least 17 and he's not more than 6 years older. Since he's younger than 23 I think it is..Something like that.. Personally, I am dating a 21 year old, and I'm 18. We first got together when I was 17, and he was 20. He even turned 21 before I was 18. So I think its perfectly fine! As long as the two people involved are both mature enough to handle it, I think they're both old enough to make their own decisions about who they date.
  • Yes, I believe so. I don't see anything wrong with it. Just don't tell anyone you're having sex. ;)
  • Sure you can date. It's illegal in some countries for the seventeen year old to have sex until they're 18, but in other countries that's not an issue and you could have sex now.
  • Not that long ago it didn't matter if a 20 year old dated a 13 or 14 year old and no one thought that much about it. Usually it was with the girl's parental permission. When I was 21 -22 I dated girls 14 to 18. No one cared. that was back in the early 1960s. Did we have sex? some yes some no. We had never heard the words "perv" or "pedophile" . About 125 years ago it was considered normal for a 12 year old girl to marry a man 40 or more years old. In fact it is believed Mary the mother of Jesus Christ was under 12 when she was betrothed to 90 year old Joseph. He was a widower having several children from his first marriage all older than Mary.

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