Well, it's up to you. Just because you're in the early stages of dating, that doesn't mean that it's not serious between you. The fact that he wants you to fly out to see him clearly means he's keen for the relationship to continue. The thing however is that do you want things to keep going and what kind of relationship do you have? Is it purely sexual? If it is, that's one expensive booty-call!!! Also, who pays for the ticket? Do you pay for your own ticket or does he chip in half because he asked to see you. Also, when he came to see you, did he stay with you or at a hotel and what would you do if you went to see him? Does he live with family, friends or on his own? Would you be risking offending future in-laws if you stayed with him or are you both old enough for it to not matter. Also, if he's older, do you or he have kids? Sorry to be asking so many questions but these are things you will need to work out - and because I don't have a clearer picture of your family / relationship situation, I'm only able to offer advice via questions. A decision like this is really something you need to make on your own and you need to make sure you don't compromise your beliefs, principles, ethics etc just to please him and be a 'go-to' girl. Just make sure you protect yourself in this situation. Good luck!

you are not giving us enought information here for us to give you an answer.how old are you? how old is he? how many times have you dated?how long have you known him?where will you stay if you visit?

No, If he really wants to see you bad enough he will find a way to come to you, then if he does, where will he sleep? Do you have kids at home? I think you should really know him before taking a fight out to visit him, to be on the safe side of things, never know.