Yup.

Yes, I have more times then I can count. Lucky me!

yes. it was ugly

no,i never have been.i only tend to be attracted to the one-man woman types,possibly because my mother was that kind of person,and because i get turned off very early into a relationship if the woman is the kind that flirts or tries to make me jealous.

Yes, several times, actually.

Yes by my ex. A man who considered himself god's gift to all women.

yes i have been cheated on and i left him .

Yep..my ex did it all the time. I left, finally, and for 4 years I had no idea where he was. He showed up one day out of the blue while I was with a male friend (ONLY a friend..we were watching tv) and that made me a slut and a whore. Is that funny or what? talk about your double standard. :-D

My wife has been cheating since the first year. We have four children and its time for us to break up. I have seen lawyers, but I want to keep the children. She has no remorse and says she will continue to have a good time and that I should also. she wants to keep the family together.

Yes, yes I have(twice). the first time I didn't find out until it was already over. (she later told me that she couldn't bear to tell me, whatever) the second time, I jnew it was going on and I tried to get her to fess up, she continued to deny the whole thing. Even though I had evidence and knew. So I left her and she moved back to Florida.

Being cheated on is not the end of the world: All it takes is a strong ego and the knowledge that your partner's need for others has nothing to do with you. Her need resides within herself. She can still be a good mother and wife.

i do not think so. but i cant say def. not. cuz iidk

Yes, a time or two or... :)

Not that I know of. (And before I get into trouble, I'm sure my wife has not cheated on me. I'm just saying I'm not aware of ever being cheated on before her.)

Yes, my ex did.I can't say I was 100% Faithful but... I guess the past is th past.

yep..but what goes around comes around. My ex's wife has cheated on him.

I hope not, but I don't know if it happened.

Yes and it was the worst thing I have ever been through.But I think it was Gods way of telling me..He is not a God,he's just a man,so stop worshiping the ground he walks on.

Yes several times....and each time it made me a better judge of who not to fall in love with.

yes i have and honest to say i think almost everybody has been cheated on or have been cheating...

yes, and it was the worst feeling ever..but i learned really forgive him from the heart and now we have a beautiful relationship.

NEVER..! Actually thats MY department:)

Yes it was so terrible i had this feeling in my stomache like OMG hes actually doing THAT with her!!

Yes. People told me that my ex-boyfriend cheated on me but i never believed it - i never thought he would do that to me. But I found out and left him, and life has been great since!

I think so , my Grandad always seems to get his tiddlywinks in the cup when I go to get a beer out of the fridge.

yes.

YEah now we remain friends. As much as it hurts then and now hes getting a 2nd chance as a friend.

No, so far as I know. I can never be sure, because my BF travels a lot, it's hard for me sometimes, but I know I would never do that, so why would he. And I know and see how much he's in love with me...

Yes, I was a sailor. It's a fairly common story amongst us. Those that are faithful out to sea, their women are not. Those that cheat have faithful women at home. Common or not, it still hurt a lot when I found out. I broke off the engagement, dropped her and all of her stuff off at her mother's house and haven't seen her since despite her calls and emails begging me to forgive her. Bwah ha ha ha. What a joke. Been much happier ever since. :)

not that i know of

i dont think u could technically calll this "cheating" It wasnt cheating physically, it was cheating with their emotions. They just admitted to having feelings for another girl and i over heard them.

I had heard rumors, but i doubt I'll ever know for sure.. Thank God, that relationship is over with..

YEA

Yes, unfortunately in every relationship I've ever had. I'm just picking the wrong people. :(

yes i have, and once i got back to trusting her it was all good. our definition of cheating is not normal tho....

Yes and it is pain that is undescribable! Don't wish the angst on anyone. Karma is a buggar bear though.

What's even worse is when the asshole leaves a trail of himself. You get my drift?

yes,recently and i am trying to forgive him. We have split up for now but maybe one day the pain will ease.

Read the chapter entitled, "First Wife".

Oh yes. I'm amazed, anymore, that anyone can make it through life without having to go through that ordeal at least once.

Too many times to count. In the last decade, I seem to only attract sluts. Unfortunately , you never know until it is too late. AT least I finally found a woman who is not like that, married her and have no reason to even think she is cheating.

I guess you could call it cheating. It'd be a very broad description of cheating, though.

No. My kids' dad did not cheat. It was a great marriage; he became ill and died. Five years later I married Ross, and he has never cheated and would never cheat. Nor would I. That's not what a marriage is about.

no.

I have, i found out two weeks ago and I have never felt pain like this in my life.. Never. After 7 years of what i thought where love and respect, nothing hurts more.

A long time ago in a relationship that I thought was more serious than it really was. Good ridance to him! I'm happy with the man I have now.

Once, but somehow I always end up being the "other guy." (I don't have prior knowledge of the first guy, and when I learn of him I end things.)

Sadly, ive been cheated on by every boyfriend ive had besides the one im with right now, but you never know well see what happens in the future.

Yes, and it hurt me deeply. I feel like I will never be able to trust again...

I wasn't technically as some of the users here say. But when someone cheats on you after 7 years. And they do it 3 weeks after a breakup, and not only that but they do it with someone who has been a threat to the reationship in the past (She promised me that he was just a friend back when I saw him as a problem) . If he was just a friend then how did this happen so soon after we broke up? I was still hoping we would be back together during this time. So i think technically or not, I was cheated on. It hurts like a b*atch and I don't know if I should kill them, beat them, kill myself or forgive her. Either way my pleed to everyone who is thinking of cheating, DON'T DO IT. There is no return. It won't "wake" your significant other. It will put the relationship to sleep, forever.

Well you kn0w what I really d0n't know ? Maybe he did but I just never found out ? I don't know I don't care - thats all in the past and you can't be stuck in the past because you'll never get to the future. xXo0xX

I was cheated on this past Saturday. My live in boyfriend went to Las Vegas for the weekend. I telephoned his hotel room on Saturday morning and a woman answered the phone. I was absolutely shocked. He came to the telephone, I asked who was she? He promptly told me, it was the maid. I immediately phoned my girlfriends and we laughed like hell. Nevertheless, it really hurts. I will move out soon. He cheated with a former employee, whom he was dating while she worked for him, he ultimately had to fire her because she had stolen $60,000 from him. Go figure, why would he cheat with her. I had moved some of my things to storage three weeks ago. He begged me to stay two weeks ago, stating how he loved me more than any woman and he could not live his life without me. If this is love, no thanks. I am busy!!!

Yes, my husband cheated on me & got the other woman pregnant. I forgive him & stayed & now am contemplating leaving because he wants me to be apart of his child life of which I cannot see myself doing atleast a this point & time.

yeh lol

Yes. And I killed her. The trial was long and grueling, but in the end I was found not guilty, as it was a "heat of passion" incident.

Yes I have been; it has been 2 years ago and I have forgiven her but I still can't forget. I want to stay but I can't trust her anymore. She told me one story but I found out a different one. With in the two years following that she has put herself in bad situations to make me more concerned. The biggest problem that I have been having is trusting her, I just can't seem to build it up again. We are having our first kid in March and I think that is the main reason I am still with her.

Been in a relationship for 3-4 years now, just had a son 4 months ago with her, last month i hacked my girlfriends email (again) (since im a tech) and found emails to some dude some with poems and others with attached half nude pics. first off, im a computer tech, ashamed she thought she could hide from me, i did invade her privacy, but im glad i did bc i have been faithful the whole time n just hadnt tried to meet other girls (though im good enough that i could have). im crushed, the worst part, this happened before during our 1st or second year together, i guess i wasnt always nice to her bc i knew she was talking to guys and when its a new relationship u accept more things off the bat but it started getting to me as we grew close, i hacked her email the first time and found evidence that when we had either broken up which was several times, but also while we were still together she had had sex with at least 4-5 guys. found pics of this guy's penis of a supposed online"friend" of hers who lived in another state, as well as pics she sent to him that were of her in lingerie and nude, sent to multiple guys most guys were on her myspace page and she said were just friends, as you can see ive been through such a mess that i am totally crushed and now this just happened, i flipped out when i found it and she admitted to just talking to someone this time bc she said i dont treat her right n wasnt there all the time emotionally during the pregnancy, which may be part true but we just had a son. At this point she left i said some things like we're done in the heat of the moment and it was heated and so did she, and weve just had a mess of a relationship but i love her to death, at least she didnt physically do anything this time but she didnt leave me, i had to pry to find this and its then that she left WITH my son to her parents house. i have to talk to her everyday feeling this pain and she's saying she doesnt feel the same, but i know she loves me, i cant also help but feel that this girl has alot of issues and would do this again to me but she swears if i had appreciated her enough it wouldnt have ever. im confused, there's my son involved now and i dont want to lose this family, or her. can anyone offer some advice? its easy to say to leave her but i do love her and she did love me, we were engaged and now its all messed up but im the only one trying. i have given up after hearing her say she feels different and knowing she is still talking to this person, as well as exs, and guys friends and this girl is unbelievable, the mother of my only son. i want to die really i do this situation feels like jail, no woman, no child, just me right now in my apt. somebody please tell me something good im at a really low point n it didnt have to be this way, what she did didnt help me solve my slight temper problem, she made it 100 times worse, it feels like its over but i cannot let go and told her now that i cant even talk to her now bc ive been having panic attacks, i love her with all my heart and want her back, im stuck giving her money now for the baby and only see him on weekend and when i decide i can drive to her parents an hour away, cant help but think, y me, y me, this is the most complicated messed up thing i have ever been through, ever