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Divorce. It will be tough, but it's do-able. My mom did it.
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Divorce---you deserve your happiness!
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Find out for sure if it is true or not and talk to the guy. Depending on his response: 1) remorse, possibly explanation...most likely after I finished screaming at him....and a complete desire to end all affairs and start rebuilding trust 2) anything less than #1 I would start divorce proceedings. Affairs are assaults on not only emotional and personal levels, they are also an assault on a physical level as they have been putting you at risk for years. I don't know if I could learn to trust someone again after something like that. But that is just me. Sorry if you're in this boat. :(
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Don't explode on him, first of all. Take this as calmly as you can. Also, don't judge him, seriously. I know you must be pretty mad at him but try and make a legitimate attempt to hear out his side of the story. You should treat divorce as a last resort and not your first option. You can still work this out. Have some hope in the situation, if not for your sake, then the kids' sake.
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My first action woud be to meditate until my brain cleared. My second action woud be to write in my journal. The point of both if these woud be to identify WHAT MY PART IN THS WAS!!! An affair is a symptom. To treat a sympton is unwise-- it is necessary to identify the root cause. I have seen MANY divorces-- one of my parets, two of my own-- and hundreds as a divorce attorney. VERY FEW of the ones i did as an attorney were for "good" reasons. Some were at least honorable. But this "affair equals divorce" knee jerk reaction is absurd and self centered. Oh-- I'd also reread "Passionate Marriage" by David Schnarch. he tells it like it is. Marriage is a "people growing machine." and as one of my mentors used to say... s/he who grows wins."
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file for divorce!
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I would send the kids away for the weekend and take my anger out on his stuff by throwing it all in bags and taking it to Goodwill. Then I'd go straight to the lawyer's office and file papers. Next I would go to the bank and put as much money as I could in an account with only my name on it. Then I'd kick his butt out and change the locks.
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Find out if he feels bad about it, and find out what the other woman thought, and how she felt.
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Return the favor!!!!....i just wanted a different answer than divorce...;)
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I would say nothing to him and get a good divorce attorney. Then ask him to leave, and I would make sure he paid child support.
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