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Under no circumstances. You'll be the next to get cheated on!
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If I went insane...being with a cheater is not a very serene position.
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None at all
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If they'll do it to them, they'll do it to you too when "The New Wears Off. "
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There is always this assumption that someone who cheats in a marriage is a one-dimensional asshole who can't be trusted. I sincerely do not believe this to be true. Take someone who's been in a dry, loveless and difficult marriage for some time, develops a real love for me (and I for her) and, despite our best intentions, have a night where it all happens. Maybe even a few nights. She methodically moves toward separating from and divorcing the hubby in order to make our dream a reality. I would choose to be with them, yeah. It would not be easy in the slightest - but this "she cheated, she's forever off the list" is just lazy, judgemental thinking.
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Under the circumstances of a firing squad pointed at my family members. Otherwise, I'd never marry someone who was willing to cheat on their spouse with me or anyone else for that matter.
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There is no circumstances that I would marry someone like that at all - None
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Everyone deserves a second chance. But always remember. Many will take advantage of every chance they get.
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None. Relationships that start like that, end like that. Period.
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I wouldn't even be with them to begine with no matter what excuse they give. I've even been told it was okay by the guy's wife and still turned him down flat. I'm not going to a part of any of this garbage.
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This is tough, because love can be confusing at times. I would say it depends on the circumstance..
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I've done it. And guess what? We're now divorced because he cheated on me..... I will never do it again. Once a dog always a dog. Sorry dog isn't even the right word. They're loyal... How about once a pig always a pig. Yeah that seems suitable.
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What goes around comes around! Itll happen to you eventually. Id be ashamed and no under no circumstance would I enter into any relationship with a taken man it is wrong!
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You just can't trust anyone who has cheated before. Period. They could even cheat only one time and then be faithful the rest of the their lives. You're still not gonna ever truly trust them. So, under no circumstances.
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Until you walk in those shoes you cannot answer you will only judge. Who are we to judge others emotions!!
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Under no circumstance would I ever marry someone who cheated on their spouse to be with me. Lets remember how we got there in the first place.
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No problem. I'd expect that she would eventually cheat on me, but that's the way the cookie crumbles. At least I got some nookie out of the deal, too.
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They know how to cheat, when the new marriage gets tough they will go right back to cheating. It's up to you.
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none. There is no situation I would marry someone wh chated on their wife with me.
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None. If they cheated on their previous spouse, what's to stop them from cheating on me. I would never be able to trust him.
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none.
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none!
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if i knew that person for a long time and knew them well. if the marraige to the partner was already dead and just lingering about...i don't believe that once a cheater always a cheater. it has to do with compatibility and the circumstances behind the "cheating". u can have an affair and still be a good person.
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Under the circumstances that I had been newly brain damaged and determined not fit to make decisions in my own best interest.
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Did. Been married to her for 16 years and fall more deeply in love with her each and every minute!
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I would not marry them if they cheated on their spouse to be with me nor would I feel good about myself if I allowed myself to become involved with a married man. If we didnt get married I would always be the other woman. If we did get married I would go back to the saying my other drilled into my head..if they do it with you they'll do it to you. This made sense while typing..hope it makes sense to others reading :)
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No circumstances. I despise cheaters, and wouldn't let that happen with forehand knowledge of it, and if I found out later, I'd be pissed, and call it off. I refuse to put any faith into someone who can do that to someone.
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No way because if he cheated on his wife with me, and left her for me, What trust and stability do I have with this man?
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Under no circumstances. I'm married to a multiple cheater (but not much longer) He told me that he tells women what they want to here to get what he wants. He cheats because he's a weak person. This was from his own mouth. Oh but after saying all that he says he loves me. What a waste of 23 years trying to believe in him.
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I'm not in a position to be looking to marry anyone since I'm already married. If I were in that situation, there would have to be several things occur. He would agree to have me talk to his ex if his ex was willing to talk to me in order to get both sides. He would have to have attended significant counseling to figure out why he cheated and how to not do so again. He would have to be someone I had a seriously long relationship with to gain trust. He would have to understand that I was aware that he was at high risk of cheating again. He would have to agree to pre-marital counseling and counseling as either of us asked for throughout our marriage. He would have to sign a prenup if I had any significant property prior to marriage with a clause concerning his receiving ZERO if he cheated. He would have to agree to have a marriage that he was willing to work on from day one with me. However, a lot of this would be a requirement regardless of whether he was a man who had cheated or not at this point in my life. Having been cheated on in the past, I'm not so willing to trust easily again.
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Under no circumstances. For I don't commit adultery. Nor do I want it to bite me back, later in life. For like the old saying goes. What goes around, comes around. Just my point of view tho.......M.C.S.
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Are you kidding? You showed them how easy it is to cheat and still get what you want. Chances are they will cheat on you in no time.
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i would rather be single
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NEVER!
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I wouldn't as the pattern may repeat itself. Also, how you begin a relationship sets a tone. This would be a sour one for both.
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I would never thank twice....if they do it with you they will do it to you.
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I would not marry a cheater......once a cheater..... always a cheater. Eventually, they would do the same thing to you. I can't get over how many friends, or kids of friends, marry guys who cheated on their wives and then are "shocked" when it happens to them....duh!!
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probably not, i have to figure that if they cheated once they will do it again
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Under the circumstances of being Brad Pitt. Those are some pretty extraordinary circumstances.
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If they had gotten a divorce. I don't want to have to go through the paperwork.
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My, my....what a precarious position. Couldn't imagine....
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I agree 100% None whatsoever! Relationships that start like that, ALWAYS ALWAYS end like that. Period!!!!!!!! I know several people including my fiance (with ex-wife) who've experienced this same situation! and he's the one who ended up getting cheated on in the end! Their marriage didn't even last the full year! she was too busy wanting the "strange".
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why not? love is love.
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Most likely none. I don't date married people, EVER! I don't even date divorced people. A person who is married or a person who has an "ex-wife" is a turn off to me.
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NONE, they are all ready cheating whos to say that when they get sick of you they wont do the same once your together.
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If I cheated on them and they forgave me.
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ABSOLUTELY N O N E ! I believe once a CHEAT ; Always a CHEAT ... 'n I do not like CHEATERS !
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Never...
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I would never do this because it would indicate to me that the person might cheat on me...in fact, PROBABLY would cheat on me.
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I wouldn't. If he cheated on his wife, he would cheat on me. When he married her, he loved her, but he still cheated...it would be exceedingly arrogant to presume that I was so much "better" than his first wife that I would never become boring to him (or that other women would cease to interest him because of my dazzling amazingness). Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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Was his wife a huge raging B****?? Whether he thought he had good reasons or not, He should've sought me after the divorce was final. I can see what sometimes drives cheaters to seek strange, but the triangle always crumbles, and I don't wanna have my ass caught in it. Not the Mistress... Not the Spouse... lol...2 much drama 4 me
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none
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Under NO circumstances would I do that because if he did to her, he will do it to me.
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None..Id have to agree with just about every answer here. Someone who cheated on their spouse to be with you might in turn cheat on you to be with someone else... Loyalty ,the person is not loyal. Their only going to go with what seems better to them . A real bad quality ..times get ruff and their gone.
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I cant think of a good circumstance so I most likely would never marry this fellow.
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well it all depends, but i dont think i would ever marry him bcuz i dont really believe in marriage...
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don't be a home recker!!!
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I know. that is what I told one of my husbands little women. The other one I told her that he would never leave me that she was just another one and will not be the last one.
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I think the situation lends itself to trust issues. But as with every relationship, this scenario also has its grey areas. NOTHING in life is black and white, and that's what 99% of people on this planet don't understand. If I truly believed that he loved me and I was able to get over the trust issues that are inherent to being "the other person", then I would throw myself headfirst into the relationship. I am generally not a risk-taker, but if not taking the risk means missing out on what could potentially be the most meaningful relationship of my life...then damned if I am going to just let it slip through my fingers.
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If the marriage is effectively over (e.g. we were separated and planning the divorce), I might enter into a relationship. But, many people would define that as cheating. In my opinion, it's like considering taking someting from someone's trash can after it's been taken to the curb for pickup. It's not stealing - they've already thrown it out and just want it gone.
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Well, if one is so needy so as to be with a man who was cheating on his wife, that person may be foolish enough to marry him. Personally, under absolutely NO circumstances would I marry this person. If he will do it to his WIFE, what makes you think when you are his wife, he will not do it to you?
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hell no. once a cheater always a cheater! never.
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I personally would not try to build a relationship on a foundation like that. It would never get to the point of marriage.
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lol,i would nt
- M.C.S. - Dave 
Mountain Momma 
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