The thing is everytime there is a situation he doesn't like,he'll say these things to force things in his favour. The last time we couldn't agree on our daughter he threatened to take me to court,although we did eventually manage to sort things out between us. I've always made an effort to get along with his girlfriend, but he refuses to do the same and it has caused so much trouble. My ex boyfriend and I used to get along so well, now we can't seem to agree on anything. I did stop him seeing her a couple of months ago, but i've really tried to make things right since then and he's very much involved with her now The thing is, if he doesn't get his way every single time when it comes to her, we have all this drama. My ex boyfriend has no reason to have a problem with my boyfriend,he just decided he was going to have one. The most important thing in the world to me is my daughter ,and if i thought ending my relationship would keep the peace i'd do it, but i don't think it'd end there, there would always always be something. If he was so willing to go court a couple of months ago how come he's so prepared to walk away now? If i agreed to this, though i just feel like i'd always be dancing to his tune. .....but i also feel like there is going to be a fall out whatever i do. If anyone has anything helpful or has been through anything similar, i really appreciate the advice. Thanks so much for listening.xx