Pregnant and alone. I just found out I'm 6wks pregnant and the man i was seeing decided not to be part of this child's life. I'm so hurt and confused. I can't believe he could just walk away from this. This would be his first child and he is 42yrs old.
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Emma
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Yes he is just a bastard. Just get medical information from him for the kid in the future and kick his ass to the curve. You and the baby will be better off than with a careless ass like him. 42 and still not willing to take responsibility. He is no good. Kick him to the curve and do it fast.
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I'm so sorry. You need to decide what the right thing for you is. Take care of yourself, lean on friends and family if you can, get counseling, eat well, etc.
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He is going to be a part of the babies life until the child is eighteen because he is going to pay child support. Don't let him get away from dodging his financial responsibilities. Don't be afraid. There are organizations available to help you and your baby. You will also meet someone nice that loves both you and your child. Don't give up on men even though the one you had needs to grow up. I would encourage you to choose life for the child. A new child can be very rewarding. The decision, of course, is up to you. Good luck. If you wish, please send a comment on how things are going.
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Its his loss! If you have decided to keep the baby then start thinking about your self and the baby now, do you have family to help? to be honest alot of men at first say they want nothing to do with a baby when they first find out but once the shock has worn off he may call you. good luck hun.xx
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Get ready to take him to court.
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You should take this matter with calm and patient.Do not force him as the relation will get worse.Try to convince him if not,take the matter to the law.
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First of all, congratulations on your pregnancy! That is a blessing! He is obviously not the kind of guy you'd want to keep around anyway (if he is treating you like this). The best thing you can do is plan ahead... go to your prenatal visits, take your vitamins and DHA supplement and folic acid, take care of yourself physicially, let the doctor know of your situation so they can offer advice. If you decide you do not want this guy as a part of your child's life, and can support yourself, get him to sign a legal document taking away his rights as a father. That way he can't decide to pop in later and try to get custody or anything. Good luck to you!
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no one has congradulated u on being pregnant so i would like to do that :D i know it is going to be hard for u but u sound like a strong woman and once the baby is born you wil find a way to manage and u will wonder how u ever had a life before your baby!! hopefully he will come round cause i cant imagine its nice doing this alone. i wish u the best of luck :D x
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He's FAR too old to not know the rules of life by now. There is no excuse for his lack of responsibility. As a man, you take care of the actions you preform.
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First, think of the child as a blessing, it is. Second, I hope you have freinds and family to lean on if you don't find a churh or community group to help Third, make sure you get some prenatal care for your baby and for yourself Fourth, the father is legally resposible whether he likes it or not And lastly if you decide you want to get married I do own a shotgun
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If he didn't give any indication about wanting a child why in the world would you allow yourself to get pregnant? Don't you think that after 42 years if he doesn't have a child there is a reason for it? You need to move on with your life and put him out of your mind.
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What a jerk, what kinda guy leaves his pregnant girlfriend to take care of a child. He doesn't even deserve a girlfriend if he's going to act like that. But you can get child support from him because its his child. You need to find someone to help you take care of your child. Your guy is too old to now the what the role of a father is. I hope you can find someone to help with your pregnancy and someone to help take care of it. Good Luck :-)
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