How do I fix my wife's horrible constant attitude and yelling over every little thing?
by 
Rawskin39
ANSWERS: 11
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stop being such a tool.
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Find out the cause of her attitude and yelling. If you are the cause and you want to live happily with her, apologize for whatever has made her have such a horrible attitude, ask her what you can do to fix it and then fix it. If it's some kind of hormonal thing or she's unable to deal with the stress she has, ask her what you can do to help her. Let her know you love her and want to be there for her. Whatever you do, don't give her any reason to have an attitude. Sometimes when people are their hardest to love, is when they need it the most! Good luck. I hope it gets better for both of you.
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Avoid her, start doing things you like to do. When she asks why you're never around, tell her the truth
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give it right back to her
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You cannot control anyone but yourself and your reactions. She is terribly unhappy which is her choosing. Everyone has a choice . . . to be happy or unhappy. You cannot change her. She has to decide she doesn't like being the way she is and get some professional help. It's really not about you as much as a learned way to express frustration, anger and helplessness.
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With a mallet.
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you might not be able to my friend..
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Well changing her would be hard, but u can make her better by talking to her about it.
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There must be an underlying cause to her behavior. It's not about the little things that she is yelling. My advice is to ask her what's wrong (must be something bothering her deeply). If she won't tell you then you should think about marriage counseling or talking to a third party about it.
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Push back. That way there's an equilibrium. Some people need to be attached to someone they feel is in control, she may need this from you.
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With ear plugs. I told this to a FRIEND I once worked with. He just LOL & said he may try it. The next day he did not show up for work. So at noon I went to his home. Feeling worried that what I had joked with him about. May of cost him his life. As I pulled into the drive-way, seeing his wife out back putting feed in the bird feeders. I asked her what happen to her husband. She stated he was sick all night, & still in bed. So I went in to see how he was doing. He was just getting up, thinking it was only morning still. When he seen the time, he was shocked. Then he started LOL & pulled out those ear plugs. He then stated that, that was the best sleep he's had in years. I told him not to say that very loud, or we both may get killed...Now this is another true story. I am not making this up. He died four years later. His request was that I made sure he had a new set of those plugs in his ears when they put him in the cold old ground. I did just that. I can just see him LOL in his grave with that big smile on his face.:-)............+5 for your question......M.C.S.
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