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I guess being broken hearted because you feel more personally betrayed. On the other hand you can feel lonely even when you are with someone and that is also very painful.
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Both are bad and they do hurt. The trick lies in finding ways not to feel lonely and in learning ways to face disappointing situations with equanimity.
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I would say a broken heart, right now I am lonly but I have had a broken heart before and that feel worse.
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broken hearted. for surely.
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I'm working hard to stay with my childhood sweetheart as I don't wanna find out!
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I think lonliness, we all get broken hearts but hopefully won't be lonley, i love giving random points, you have made me very happy ;0) Cheer up Charlie
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Being broken hearted would hurt the most, I think -- much pain going on here. If someone is lonely, they can try to solve the problem by going out to meet people.
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Second one!
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Being broken hearted is worst but being lonely has its advantages.
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Being broken hearted. If you are happy in your own company being alone is not really a big deal.
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I think the broken heart is the worst. If your relationship ended suddenly or you have alot of emotional equity built into the relationship then it takes time in healing the heart. I rely on friends and family to help when I have had mine broken.
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both hurt so much, i really couldnt choose.:)
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broken heart...but not so much as unrequited love...ouch.....
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Broken-hearted. Being lonely is something that you can get used to. Broken-hearted is worse... it's like having a chunk of you torn out and left as an empty void. :(
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Short term-broken heart, long term-lonliness...IMO. ;-)
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Can you really separate the two? nothing is more heart breaking then being in a room full of people and yet still feel so alone. I think the two go hand in hand.
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I've found being on fire has a little bit more of a sting than the other two...
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broken hearted. cos if you've always been lonely then you know no different. Thats why I don't beleive that saying "better to have loved and lost, than to never of loved at all" You'd never be hurt if you'd never of loved would you, so you'd be better off.
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"Being lonely" is like a long-term arthritic condition ... the ache just doesn't go away. "Being broken hearted" is like being stabbed ... it hurts like hell, but the pain isn't going to last very long.
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Broken hearted definitely hurts more. You can always make friends. But you can't heal a broken heart very easily.
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Loneliness, you get over being broken-hearted eventually...
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Heartbreak that was a result of finding out that you were being lead on by someone you really love.
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Being broken hearted has been worse for me.
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if your broken hearted that means you have loved and lost and if your lonely you may not know what you have missed. i will say broken hearted is worse.
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Being broken hearted would be worse for me.
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a broken heart hurts more at the beginning, granted. But being lonely is far worse than being broken hearted, let me tell you why! to have been broken hearted you must have loved and shared experiences that will always stay with you no matter what, some good and some bad. It will make you stronger and in the end you will get over it. We are extremely adaptable creatures! Being lonely is far worse because to be in that state means you truly don't have anyone to confide in, wasted days lead to sleepless nights and unlike broken heats healing, loneliness can force you deeper into solitude with nothing to learn from. plus naturally we are a pack creature, to be alone is unnatural.
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I've felt both multiple times, and the pain of a broken heart is far worse. For me at least.
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I would have to say being broken hearted.
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being broken hearted :/
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Being broken hearted by a landslide.
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For me broken heart would be more hurtful as you have a lot of emotions and feelings involved that need to be healed.
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Being lonely
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I havent really been broken hearted but i've felt very lonely for very long periods of time
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Definately being broken hearted.
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People have killed themselves for both reasons. I think I agree with most of the people here who have experienced both: a broken heart is worse. But someone who has never been in love at all might disagree, and might think "it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." I think, for the lonely people, it's not just about loving someone. It's also at least 50% about having someone who loves you.
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When I feel lonely, I usually find ways to bring myself out of it, read a great book, watch a movie, online here. Last time my heart was broken I didn't think I would ever be able to feel ok again, so for me that was the worst. I did get through it and looking back from this side of the situation, I know now that what I thought was the worst thing that could happen to me was really a blessing.
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Defenatly being broken hearted, cant think of a worse feeling.
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being broken hearted because then you are forced into loneliness for the time being
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Being broken hearted is worst for me.
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I don't think you can distinguish between the two, because they usually come together. Obviously you'll be lonely and broken-hearted if someone breaks up with you.
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Broken heart is devastating, almost akin to a death of someone but being lonely is quite normal. Sometimes you can be used to being alone so much that loneliness is no longer felt.
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Broken hearted, when you are lonely you can seek out the company of others, when you are broken hearted all you wish to do is curl up in a ball and make the pain stop.
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broken hearted is the worst feeling..
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