There was a period of time, about once every two to 3 weeks, for about 3 to 4 months, I made candlelight breakfast-in-bed AND candlelight dinner-in-bed. It didn't have to be any special occasion. It worked fine "Just because . . ." If you never did it before, PLEASE DON'T "experiment" the first time or two. NOTHING ruins any kind of meal faster than thinking of and treating your partner, spouse or significant other as a "guinea pig". AND you don't even have to know how to cook! How? Get take-out from that favorite restaurant or fast food place OR Serve your favorite convenience foods: pizza, pasta, etc. Frozen waffles or pancakes - cooked according to the package's directions. Frozen dinner entrees - cooked according to the package's directions. AND serve it as though you made it at home: On THE BEST of everything - using your BEST china, linen, silver and glassware, DON'T forget to "set the mood"! When it's just the two of you, something as intimate as breakfast or dinner in bed: With flowers. Candles - yes, even in the daytime! Your (as a couple) favorite music! or the one you're serving the meal to. AND each other! Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! Was in the Food and Beverage business over 26 years. "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

That's a nice Christmas gift. Don't go overboard on the anniversary thing. To be honest, guys don't care that much about what it is but we do appreciate the thought. Buy him some silk boxers. Sexy, functional and comfortable.