ANSWERS: 9
  • You are choosing to go through this. Do not let something that happened in the past get you down. The grass is always greener on the other side. You are the same person after this situation as you were before, now you just need to make more choices to make you happy again!!! Stay positive and know that fate will bring you to the right place again!!
  • Hold on for a second.I am wearing your shoes right now. But tring to figure out my ways againt all odds.Keep going.If anythings that permanent its change.
  • Yeah, your strong now but you'll be a little stronger for getting by this. Keep your head up. This too shall pass.
  • man dont feel so bad, u aint the only one ... my ex is mad at me, cause Finally I am collectin 2 year back up child support from him, and he is mad cause I am keeping the money,,, actually he broke up with me cause of that.,. so wheres the love?????????
  • keep going honey, things will get better - believe me. I dont think there are many people here who have NOT had their heart broken one way or another, through breakups, death or whatever.. you just keep plodding on and you will make it in the end. You'll see ((((hugs))))
  • Yes, my heart is broken too. I have been recovering for the past three years, and it is not easy. My advice to you is this: Take each day as it comes to you, because you can only deal with one day at a time right now. To try to deal with the past or the future is out of your reach right now. Don't try. Make each day an earmark of your progress out of the darkness and into the light. Try to remember only the good times and none of the bad. It is hard, but you can only try. And, finally, try very hard to only keep love in your heart. It really does conquer all, and it will change you from within. It will bathe your spirit in warmth and hope, unlike fear or hatred or revenge, which only consumes your spirit and destroys it. Good luck, and remember that we are all praying for your recovery and happiness. Peace.
  • The great thing about hearts is that they mend. It takes time but it does actually happen. Anyone who's ever cared about anything has had their heart broken at some time or another. Hang in, move on, try not to dwell on it and time will weave its magic.
  • Yup, I have been heart broken for some time now. You just gotta learn to trust your heart and gut, and know that things will get better. I believe our lives are somewhat paved out for us, and that things happen for a reason. And if it's meant to be it will happen again.
  • I may not be much help in answering your question but i want you to know that i am heart broken too.And every time i get back together or try keeping my self happy and occupied this feeling comes back,then comes the memories of what use to be and i still puzzled thinking of what went wrong,where did i go wrong,or how could this happen and then im back into a depressed state again.The mind is deep and the heart is tender and each wound could reopen again if you allow it.And ppl keep saying get over it move on.As if its so easy as if you could just erase every painful memory from your brain.The best thing to do is just try not to be alone,it really does take a toll on you in bringing back memories.Great friends and humor and happiness bring you to the present and keep you focused on the present.Keep yourself far away from anything depressing and i do mean anything especially depressing love songs.Stick to things that promote your happiness that you can feel great about yourself.Remember you must first love yourself.

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