After being split up for 9 months I am now in so much pain, Why? Will it get better?
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Sounds like you're a sensitive one. You obviously have an emotional attachment that you thought has gone away, but has only been in hiding. Will it get better? Doubtful. Sensitive people are always the scapegoats in broken relationships for they cut the deepest. Sad but true. Your best bet is find someone else as a rebound to get your mind off of the other. The key is SEX. The relationship should be built around sex---nothing more, nothing less. Sex works wonders, believe me on this. Fuck your ex and his/her feelings because it's about yours now.
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somebody once told me that to get over any relationship that ends, for each year you were together it takes the same amount of years to truly move on. and it think this is true to a certain degree, i have defnitelt seen evidence of this in my life. I don't know how long you were together or how serious your relationship was but i think it is reasonable to still be upset. of course it will get better though, you are not going to still be upset over this one guy in 20 years are you? i am sure you will find someone else and they will help you move on. don't beat yourself up over it though, just give yourself time and be optimistic about the future and keep yourself busy.
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time heals.
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Maybe thats why he left you, you seem to be pretty intense individual. If you still feel that way after nine months, you must not have much of a life. Get out and meet other people. Lots of nice things going on, you're just not looking. Forget him already, it's not worth the pain you are gong through. You just lost nine months out of your life brooding about him. Tinme to move on.......
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