Is your life balanced more toward serving yourself or serving others? (Note "balanced", that is, not neglecting either.)
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Rickster is victorious
ANSWERS: 10
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I try to serve others more, but I know I’m more selfish than I’d like to be. Ironically, it’s slowing down on Answerbag in favor of my kids that has truly allowed me to get better at serving.
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That's hard. I guess you have to learn what it means to serve yourself. I tried to do for others at the neglect of myself. Now I do for me. Sometimes I feel freaked out that I am seflish and wrong... but I find that I do what is best for me and that I really don't want to hurt others.
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I always serve others before myself...I am a big time giver and I give and give until I have no more to give...I do need to start leaning more towards the serving yourself side but that is hard at times..+9 great question:)
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... pretty much, yes ... it sways back and forth, a little more of each in turn, but always has a fair amount of both ...
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you mean are we the bich at the party who goes to the bathroom and pleasures themselves only. Or are we the whores who pleasure every1 at the party :D
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Well, with five children, fourteen grand-children, and seven great-grand-children, you figure. But now that I'm in love with a young man (in his early seventies), I'm beginning to re-focus. One of my great-grands even taught me this business of the Internet. It's kind of weird, but I like it!
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Others, and I usually give people a break on my fees.
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Serving others...but I'm working on leveling the scale.
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It gives me great joy to do things for my loved ones. So that's what I do! Happy Friday! :) ((hugs))I think I'm very balanced.
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I absolutely ADORE serving others if it will create friendships and build better ones! I want to be friends with as many people as I can, and if I serve others, that may coax others into serving me when I need it! =^D
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