How do you forgive yourself when you say something stupid to a date or significant other when they've said it was okay but you still feel guilty?
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Ender
ANSWERS: 7
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I tell him that in sorry a whole bunch of times even when he says that its ok. And i say it a lot during the day too! It makes me feel better!
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I think that the best thing you can do is to learn from htat mistake. if you feel bad, that's a good sign, it means that you're less likely to say/do it again.
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i just appologise and then get over it !
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Sometime or other he/she will say something stupid to you too - it's all part of being human. If you can forgive yourself you'll forgive others, and vice versa. Just apologise, tell them you know you're a prune, shrug your shoulders and put it down to experience.
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don't apologize for saying what you feel, coz its like saying sorry for being real.. don't feel guilty about it... coz in one way or another, its what you wanted... just try to be true to yourself..
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Let go of it. Its in the past Ender. You run the risk of beating yourself up as well.
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Be a friend to YOURSELF. I find that so many of us help our friends get over things and tell THEM not to beat themselves up, but we find it hard to let ourselves off the hook for anything.
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