Do you think that someone who has had homosexual experiences is automatically gay, or is it possible to experiment and have it be just that, an experiment?
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I don't think having a homosexual experience automatically makes you gay. Coz you can for example have sex with your friends and stuff without having to be gay. and that your just experimenting. For some, to truly find out if your gay you try to have sex with someone of the same sex that you, and you can come out with, that you are not. But if you are really atrected to someone of the same sex, then you might be gay.
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Note: I'm not talking about kissing and things like that, I'm talking about actual sex when I say "experience" (if that changes your answer). I hope someone will answer!
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Well it depends on how long you keep "expiermenting" I mean if it goes on and on for years with different people and you like it your pretty much gay if that's the only sex you like or bisexual if you like both genders. Just my personal opinion though.
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I read a survey that indicated a large percentage of males ( I think it was 50%) have had some sort of a homosexual experience. So, I guess not!
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Yeah I think it can be experimenting, or you could be bi-curious, bi, or gay. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter how you define yourself, just as long as you are happy. Everyone is always in such a rush to 'label' things. Well i require a label that says 'Vegetable disliker' ...silly eh, 1, who gives a s**t and 2, this might change. Actually on that point, people who outrigh say they are straight without ever 'experimenting are probably just scared/lying/supressed etc. You wouldn't be allowed to say 'I don't like carrots' without trying them, it makes no sense, and, how would you know. ... i think i might be talking about veg!! ... time for bed i think!
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Many homosexuals "experiment" with women prior to realizing that they are homosexual. They usually have better reason to experiment than heterosexuals, because society wants to hit homosexuals with sticks for being homosexual. I wouldn't hold it against a heterosexual for doing what homosexuals sometimes do, although I would wonder about their reasons for so doing.
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no it does not make you gay,i experimented with males before i had sex with a female.i found i liked females a lot more but i still wanted sex with males so iam bi,i am married now and stll have sex with men from time to time.i am lucky to be married to a bi female who also liked having sex with females but liked the men better.i have been with males who had sex with me but later decided it was not what they wanted.they say it was enjoyable but was a experiment.i hope this helps.
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