What Is the Bible’s View?
Where Did Cain Get His Wife?
“I HAVE been in the army nearly eight years and have asked many chaplains that question. None could answer it!” So explained a young Danish man to a visiting minister of Jehovah’s witnesses.
Why is this such a difficult question for many persons, including even clergymen?
To understand why, consider the way in which this question is often asked: ‘The Bible says that Adam and Eve had two sons, Cain and Abel. Cain killed his brother and went to another land where he took himself a wife and raised a family. If Adam and Eve were the only humans created by God, where did Cain get his wife?’
In framing the question in this way, it is evident that questioners think that Adam and Eve must not have originally been the only humans. So, they reason, Cain evidently obtained his wife from other peoples living on earth. However, this view is not in harmony with the Bible, which says: “Adam called his wife’s name Eve, because she had to become the mother of everyone living.”—Gen. 3:20.
Many others, however, do not believe the Bible account of creation to be historical. Such worldly critics may, therefore, dismiss the question regarding where Cain got his wife as unworthy of consideration. They do not believe that Adam and Eve or their son Cain ever really existed.
Well, then, is the question regarding Cain and his wife a legitimate one? Do we have sound reason for believing that he and his parents really existed, and that the entire human family actually sprang from one common source, Adam and Eve?
Yes, this Bible view is in keeping with the evidence. Modern-day scientists have, in fact, indicated this. For example, in the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization’s Third Statement on Race, twenty-two experts say: “Mankind is one . . . all men belong to the same species, Homo sapiens. . . . all men are probably derived from the same common stock.”
Also, Professor Ruth Benedict and Dr. Gene Weltfish observe in the publication The Races of Mankind: “The Bible story of Adam and Eve, father and mother of the whole human race, told centuries ago the same truth that science has shown today: that all the peoples of the earth are a single family and have a common origin.”
Well, then, since this is the case, Where did Cain get his wife? Is there a logical Bible answer?
Yes, there is. It is pointed to in the very instructions given to Adam and Eve shortly after their creation, namely: “Be fruitful and become many and fill the earth and subdue it.”—Gen. 1:28.
Obedience to this command would require that Adam and Eve have children. Then these children, in turn, would marry and bear children. This process of reproduction by succeeding generations would need to continue in order to fill the earth in harmony with God’s purpose.
However, before Eve was pregnant with her first child Cain, both Adam and his wife sinned by disobeying God and were driven outside the garden of Eden. (Gen. 3:1-19) Where would Adam and Eve now live? The Bible tells us: “With that Jehovah God put [Adam] out of the garden of Eden to cultivate the ground from which he had been taken. And so he drove the man out and posted at the east of the garden of Eden the cherubs and the flaming blade of a sword that was turning itself continually to guard the way to the tree of life.”—Gen. 3:23, 24.
From this it can be seen that Adam apparently went out to the east of the garden of Eden. It was here that, not only Cain and Abel were born, but the Bible also later mentions by name a third son, Seth. However, notice that Adam and Eve had other children as well. For Genesis 5:4 says: “And the days of Adam after his fathering Seth came to be eight hundred years. Meanwhile he became father to sons and daughters.”
This meant that Cain and Abel had sisters, and possibly other brothers not listed by name. These grew up together as earth’s original family.
Time passed. Finally, following the offering of sacrifices to God by two of the sons, Cain became jealous of Abel because God showed favor toward Abel and his sacrifice, but not toward Cain and his sacrifice. Cain allowed hatred to develop toward Abel and he murdered him.—Gen. 4:1-8; 1 John 3:10-12.
For this wicked deed God sentenced Cain to banishment, away from the rest of his relatives. The Bible says: “Cain went away from the face of Jehovah and took up residence in the land of Fugitiveness [called “the land of Nod” in some Bible translations] to the east of Eden.”—Gen. 4:9-16.
However, notice here that the Bible does not say that Cain found his wife in the land of Fugitiveness. It simply says: “Afterward Cain had intercourse with his wife and she became pregnant and gave birth to Enoch.”—Gen. 4:17.
Where, then, did Cain get his wife? It was obviously from among his own family. His wife was one of his fleshly sisters, a daughter of Adam and Eve. Cain was likely married at the time he killed Abel, or shortly thereafter took one of his sisters as a wife. They then traveled together to the land of Fugitiveness, where they took up residence and started their own family.
“But such a union is incest!” some may object. This objection reflects knowledge of the risk to children when brothers and sisters marry in our day. These are frequently born with some physical deformity or mental incapacity. Thus most lands today have laws forbidding marriage between close fleshly relatives.
It must be remembered, however, that circumstances were different in earlier times. Adam and Eve were created perfect, and the instruction for them ‘to multiply and fill the earth’ would necessarily require that their offspring marry one another and reproduce. (Gen. 1:28) But as perfect humans, their children would have been perfect as were their parents.
Even though Adam and Eve sinned and became imperfect, Cain and his brothers and sisters were still so near to physical perfection that the children they produced did not suffer the same adverse effects as do children born of such unions today. Even some 2,000 years afterward, God’s faithful servant Abraham married his half-sister Sarah, and God did not disapprove. (Gen. 20:12) It was yet another 450 years or so before God saw fit to provide his nation of Israel a body of laws that forbade incest on penalty of death. (Lev. 18:8-17) By that time imperfection had apparently developed to such an extent that no longer was it safe for close relatives to marry.
So, really, the question of where Cain got his wife is not a difficult one. The answer is provided right within the Bible, and it becomes obvious when the Bible account is read carefully.
Comments
Good answer and I must admit the first long answer I have read from start to finish. I find that the font on the site added to the fact that some do not use paragraph breaks I find reading long answers daunting.
It's odd how something like incest was acceptable then but nowadays people frown on it, I know what it says in the bible but I am talking about with that knowledge how people react. Interesting.
by Anonymous on February 12th, 2009
Thanks...A few comments have said I post too long comments so will try to do less , it's a bi difficult sometimes as there is a lot of information that can be presented.
by seahorse on February 12th, 2009
Excellent answer! Thanks! And there's nothing wrong with a long complex answer if the explanation requires one.
by HungryGuy on February 13th, 2009
Thanks HungryGuy,nice for you to say so .
by seahorse on February 13th, 2009
Yes linnett ,there are some things that in todays world seems hard to understand , but I guess we must realise that it was all to do with the promised seed which took priority .
by seahorse on February 17th, 2009
That is the problem with most chrisians,they cannot defend Genesis,and answer where cains wife was from.1Cor.15:45,says as it is written,"The first man Adam was made a living soul;the last Adam was made a quicening spirit.God didn't make a whole race of people.Genesis 3:20 And Adam called his wife's name Eve,because she is the mother of all living.All people other than Adam are descendants of Eve.Genesis 2:20 And Adam gave names to all cattle,and fowl of the air and to every beast of the field;but Adam there was not found an help meet for him.One race of women Eve.So you see there wasn't any other women on the earth,just Eve,whom God made from Adams rib.Genesis 5:4 says Adam was 800 yrs old,so they would have had alot of kids.So in 1Cor.God made one race,so cains wife had to come from Eve.
by Jesus is God on April 28th, 2009
So the short answer is that Adam and Eve had many more children than just Cain and Abel as stated in the Bible? And all those children (including Cain and Abel) mated with each other--brothers and sisters--to propagate the human race?
by HungryGuy on April 29th, 2009
Yes that's it the Bible says Eve became the mother of everyone living ,, simple : “Adam called his wife’s name Eve, because she had to become the mother of everyone living.”—Gen. 3:20.
by seahorse on April 29th, 2009
I have a different view. I am of the opinion that Adam and Eve were not the first people on earth, but rather the first people to receive the Spirit of YHWH. Yashua Messiach (Jesus) often spoke to the disciples saying that they cannot understand the spiritual, and thats why he speaks in parables. Look at the creation spiritually.
Gen1 In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth.
Now the earth was unformed and void, and darkness was upon the face of the deep; and the spirit of God hovered over the face of the waters.
Unformed and void also means wild and empty. How can something be wild and empty at the same time? If you fill a house with junk, its wild. And when you remove everything, its empty. This means that the earth (Man) was wild from earthly things, and empty in Spirit (dead).
Why did the Spirit hover over the face of the waters? Because he had no place to rest (Remember the Spirit lives within us)
Gen 1:3 And God said: 'Let there be light.' And there was light.
Gen 1:4 And God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness.
Let there be light, he gave man Spiritual understanding.(Baptism)
Gen 1:6 And God said: 'Let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters.'
Gen 1:7 And God made the firmament, and divided the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament; and it was so.
Gen 1:8 And God called the firmament Heaven. And there was evening and there was morning, a second day.
What is the waters being divided? That is the will of man, from the Will of Yahweh (God). Those with Spiritual understanding could now determine the difference.
And God called the firmament Heaven - Heaven is therefore the state of being when we live in His will.
And so it goes on, Then before we get to the creation of the first man... Ask yourself - When Yahweh said to Adam if you eat from this tree, you will surely die. Did Adam die ?
No, he died Spiritually.... That is why we are born Spiritually dead, that is why we have to be reborn (Baptism).
If you think Logically... How could light as we know it, be created before the Sun and the Moon ? We need to stop seeing the creation as a physical event... and see the spiritual - and then appply it to our lives.
In the beginning, I was Spiritually dead, and YHWH created Light in me. I asked for His Spirit and I received.
And then He seperated my will from His.... Now I feel conviction in Spirit when I disobey him. The earth that is spoken of in Genesis, is me.
Now we move onto the creation of the first man.
Gen 1:26 And God said: 'Let us make man in our image, after our likeness; and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.'
Gen 1:27 And God created man in His own image, in the image of God created He him; male and female created He them
If YHWH is Spirit, and he created me in His image... Then did he create me in body, or in Spirit ?
He gave me dominion over the fish in the sea - That is the people who he wants me to bring to him (Fisher of men).
Every creeping thing that creepeth over the earth - I am to bring not only church goers to His Glory, but even men who do not believe.
Gen 2:7 Then the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
YHWH gave man his Spirit. Spiritual birth of the first man.
Gen 3:8 And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden toward the cool of the day; and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden.
How can YHWH walk with them in the garden if He is Spirit ? simple, they are spirit too. Once I was united with my Elohim in Spirit, I walked with him. He dwells within me.
The point here is simply this. Christia
by IvanN on April 9th, 2010
IvanN ----Interesting
by my2cents--Vote for Paul on August 13th, 2010
That was my understanding after reading the Bible thanks for putting it in a great context.
by Kelli_J on April 24th, 2012