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by ademmedina on September 8th, 2008

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WHAT IS REAL LOVE?
DOES TRUE LOVE EXIST?

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  • by Stranger in a Strange Land on December 8th, 2009

    Stranger in a Strange Land

    I don't think it exists, at least not for me. +5

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  • by Wisdoms Words on December 1st, 2009

    Wisdoms Words

    Love is a chemical reaction, a spiritual condition and emotional state of being. Many equate Love as being God. To live in a constant state of love, in love with the brethren, neighbours, peers and the world in general is akin to gaining heaven on earth, a perpetual state of nirvanic bliss. The pure in heart, untainted by hate, malice or fear other than loss of grace tend to live in this innocent realm of understanding and tranquil sobriety, free from the want and need arising from a remiss of void of comfort, emotional security and stability driving the will in a search for love.

    The phrase to love thine self prior to being loved is based upon the gaining of this truth, that the mind, heart and soul must be pure and when sanctified and fee of incumbent emotional baggage, resentment etc to be able to receive love. Alternatively being enriched with parental love from conception birth and onwards imbues the persona with contentment negating the want of comfort based upon anything other than pure reason and sense. The insufficiently parented tend to grab love or security whereso they chance upon it blindly without reason and tend to be disappointed. Or they become hardened through mistrust and anger and thwart any love that may arise about them.

    Love is a spiritual science, its gaining based upon the quantum physics of many particle factors. Being in love, the endorphin like chemical s emitted by the brain becomes addictive to some, and the individual strives to hold onto the euphoria of being in the heights of love. True love is found amongst the reasonable and sensical mind. Other than the thinking and spiritually rich, love tends to be a barter of comfort and company, a respite from the mundane mediocrity of daily life. Addiction to the chemicals emitted if not checked create a personality flaw in pursuit of the highs flits from love to love in search of truth and reason, rarely found where such searches lead. Addiction to the chemical releases is overcome by power of will, reason and self mastery. This results in the Spiritually enriched being satiated in Love. True love grows and prospers where virtue, morality and honour abound.

    Love exists as does true love. Its scarcity make any such portal of love a breeding ground of envious and covetous sinners, and we find loves sacred light snuffed out by such carnal predicates. This is why modern day love story’s are rare and few between. A lack of fidelity, virtue and sense of reason prohibit the growth of love in the otherwise affluent and alluring. Love is either a humble supplication or a merging with another in trust and faith. Similar to faith in God, Spousal fidelity and bonds of friendship. Love requires an understanding to be gained, and a pure and contrite heart courageous enough to choose wisely and be steadfast. In a modern market place where billions are spent in armouring seekers of loves elixir, it has become a thoroughly misunderstood phenomenon. With applied mathematical and scientific principles love can be recreated and made essential to all. Virtue, honour and morality are its only paths, innate nature to the blessed, a higher path unattainable to others.

    The highly addictive passion that many seek as an enhanced state of living is caused by an adrenaline rush. This adrenaline is emitted from the brain and has powerful anti-oxidant properties of healing, cleansing and purification. To be in love with life, the joie de vivre is sought by many yet found by few. What occurs in relationships within family’s, friends, peers or companions is a build up of unspoken suppressed resentment and anger. This anger inhibits and stifles love until only apathy and a quiet rage remains. This rage destroys the brains ability’s to produce the chemicals required for mental and emotional equilibrium resulting in health problems, mental issues and a generally unsociable disposition. Surmising, Love exists relative to a persons store of it, and subject to the clearing of any ager issues within to maintain equipoise and cultivate an inner disposition conducive to living in a constant state of being in love with life itself

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  • by speachless on June 1st, 2010

    speachless

    doesn't exist i don't believe in it

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  • by emily6 on December 8th, 2009

    emily6

    I do believe that real love and true love exist. I see them as one and the same. I will just refer to both as 'love' for simpicity. I believe that love is first of all unconditional and based on wanting for the person what they want for theirself even if that means they move away from you. You care about their happiness, their joys and sorrows and do not try to block it. Of course, at the same time you need to be true to yourself always and they must be true to themself but there are happy compromises. When you really love someone they are the priority in your life.

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  • by MOB on December 8th, 2009

    MOB

    no

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  • by Anonymous on November 23rd, 2009

    Anonymous

    I don't think you can describe true love with words, they just don't fill the meaning of love. And yes it does exist.
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  • by buster on November 23rd, 2009

    buster

    Yes, ademmedina, there is true love. It exists as certainly as generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no true love. It would be as dreary as if there were no ademmedinas. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The eternal light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished.

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  • by KNIS71 on September 9th, 2008

    KNIS71

    Real Love Is blind, You can't see anything but the person that you love, they can no do wrong, and no matter what people say I doesn't change the way you feel about them, So yes it does exist.

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  • by cath on September 12th, 2008

    cath

    well there's a big difference between true love and infatuation, and these two are easily confused.

    here is the perfect article to help you out...

    http://dev.iamnext.com/sexandlove/truelove.html

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  • by Awakened on December 27th, 2009

    Awakened

    If it did not exist, then how could one question it? Did you mean to ask if you will ever find it? The answer I believe is yes. But beware, if you do not open your heart and set it free, how might you ever be able to follow it where ever it may lead?

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