Do women really prefer a really big cock, or do they just want enough girth to make them feel full?

Honestly, a really big cock and a cock with lots of girth are both great, but as it's been said many times before, it's the skill and attentiveness of the lover that makes all the difference. If a man has given me several orgasms orally or manually before he enters me, then even an average or small one can feel good. It's the passion in the pushin' that makes the sex feel great. There have been many a big-cocked man who thinks it's good enough just to be big - and they're usually wrong.

For me, it's kinda like rodeo rules. The one that can stay in the saddle long enough scores the big points... ;~)

I like the one attached to my husband.

I can't speak for all women, but yes, I do.

It's impossible to generalise about what 'women' want - I am an unabashed self admitted size queen when it comes to choosing guys with the larger penis and I am impressed by above average length, and girth and especially when someone has both!. I would choose a larger guy anytime based purely on size but also agree that it doesnt necessarily link with sexual prowess or skill. However if I sat down with a group of my mates I'd find as I have that many of them would rather have a guy with 'average to just above average' rather then 'extra large' or certainly not 'huge'..There's no one single 'woman' view you can post as a standard but I would say more women err on the side of wanting an adequate to good girth than in seeking the 'wow; factor in length.

I like medium/large. NOT BIG. Width can hurt too

It's not always the size that matters, it's how you use it. As for the ones that only care for size, if you have a monster cock they're satisfied as soon as you slide it in.

I will have to say knowing how to use it and please a woman comes first. But a nice big cock to go along with that ability is even better. I love that totally filled feeling of a big cock deep inside me.

As some men consider their big cock an example of their manhood, I want to show them that I am every bit as much a woman. A woman that can take every bit of that cock. A woman that will totally surrender herself to its mastery over me and be begging him to fuck me senseless.

My bfs cock is about 9 inches long and about as big around as my wrist, and he knows how to please me with it. I’ve grown so accustomed to having his big cock fucking me, I just to get as much pleasure form the smaller ones in our swingers group.

yes, big is better, not too long but definitely very thick, girth is the key, just take it slow, once its in the pleasure is immense, try some various sized dildos and vibrators,

girth is important as it rubs against the clit more effectively than 11 inches of pencil

Most women want the feeling of being penetrated. Men who are average to small may be plenty big enough for a women who's vagina is small. But the same men to a women who have experienced and are use to a larger penis, will not be as satisfying. Especially women who have gone threw multiple child births. I have found out that they defiantly prefer a larger penis. Truth be told, have you ever heard of a women bragging about her man's small penis, and how good he is at using it?

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hows about all u insecure guys get with reality and work out that cock size dont matter watsoever aslong as u above 4", girls mostly lie about big cocks cos the girls that answer here are most likely sluts or virgins.

I am average, nearly 7 inches. I've read that 5.5 inches is average, but whatever. Look, here's the deal. There is a mate for all of us and we should be happy with our lovers. I'm married to an amazingly sexy and wonderful woman who had a long relationship (nearly a year) with a guy who was big. How big? Well she never measured, but said that she could see her abdomin move when he was inside of her. She told me all about it (without me asking, btw) and she said it was not comfortable for her, that she never got used to it. She insists, again without me asking or saying anything, that I'm perfect for her and that I give her intense orgasisms unlike any she has ever experienced. I satisfy her. She satisfies me. And that's really what it's all about.

If a girl is looking for a big one, she's looking for a big one. So what. Move on. Find someone who is happy with you. We are all unique and have something to offer this world. Why make such a big deal about something none of us has any control over? I'm sure every man in the world would love to be with Kim Kardashian, except they'd have to deal with her prima donna bullshit. Just as I'm sure all things being equal many women wouldn't mind any extra inch or two downstairs. But, that dude with the biggest penis ever recorded (something like 13.5 inches) -- he's lonely because no one can handle him or love him or stick with him or whatever.

Women aren't that much different than men. Name me a guy who wouldn't love to be with some big-busted broad with a perfect hour glass body and a beautiful face who loves sex and SportsCenter and college football and going down on a guy. Similarly, there is a reason that all of those trashy romance novels have one of those Adonis male models on the cover. If a woman is going to be distracted because she doesn't like your penis size or your abs or your hair or whatever, move on. Just move on. Let the bitches get their big cocks and find a real woman worth loving.

asian omen have tighter pussies and are much more enjoyable than sloppy european
vaginas

The truth is that all women would love to get themselves around a big cock, both girth and depth really satisfy.

Any woman whom has had the opportunity (if they are honest) will tell you the same thing.

So in the physical sense, nothing comes close to the fulfillment that a big cock can supply.

However, in the grand scheme of relationships and love, cock size and girth are 'nice to haves' but not really high on a womans priority when finding a life partner :)

Of course using larger toys can fulfull that role if required ;)

Ladies, do you agree?

How about a guys perspective….I am a guy with an average sized package and I have personally lost a gf as a result of what I call big cock fever. Furthermore the girl I am cuurrently with and I broke up for a while and during this time she was with a guy with a big cock. While I am not blessed with a big cock (average size), I can honestly say that I have compensated nicely with my various techniques when I go down. I can make my girl cum 5 different ways, I can make her squirt at will, find the G spot in 2 seconds flat, giver her simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasms and turn her inside out.

Having said that, I have some pretty bad news for all those guys who don’t possess big ones. Whilst research indicates that about 35% of women actually prefer good oral sex to penetration….I think these figures are inaccurate and that…..THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR A BIG COCK! It’s a situation that really sucks for us average guys, I mean I have got going down to a science yet I know no matter what I do…..I will never be able to satisfy a woman like a guy with a big cock who is only moderately trying.

It’s a tough call, I guess women have to make a decision based on the love they have for their average guy and their needs for sexual satisfaction. I know I satisfy my girl but I also know she must miss a big cock. If you love your "average" guy and decide to stay, I’m sure you can work together so that you will achieve sexual satisfaction, but maybe never the kind od satisfaction you got with a big cock.

Good luck

I really don't prefer a huge cock, but if a guy has it, I consider it a nice asset. I don't care much about the cock size, really. I like different types and different kinds.

I am not sure about this answer , but it will depend on your partner.

According to a 2002 dutch research, 21% of women thought penis length was important and 32% thought penis girth was important to them.

http://www.tdsmproject.com/do-women-care-about-penis-size/


ANother study carried in czech republic concluded that 34% of women will likely have an orgasm with a larger than average penis.

http://www.tdsmproject.com/thestudythatsaidpenissizematters/

I like it both ways. A guy with an average sized penis can perform quite well. And sometimes they can be *too* big.

I tend to prefer them on the larger side though. It may well be that the size of the ship doesn't matter, but it's much smoother sailing on a liner than a tugboat.

may age is 32 years old. I have a small cock. but I want to do my cock is big

I've heard that white women like sex with blacks because they're kind of like animals, (like fucking a dog or a goat) as if white females like beastiality or something. black guys do look a little like animals, i suppose, a bit like the missing link. Is that the attraction? That sex with a black is taboo, like doing an animal of some kind? As if the cock size isn't quite human? Just wondering. And why is it only white women? feminism? Beause speaking as an asian woman, there aren't many asian women that think about blacks.

also tho.. i ave had complaints about it being too big

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I have to say i am blessed in that way with a long and thick cock... and im sorry to say to anyone here, but when ever i have been with a woman for the first time and they see it.. their eyes light up like you wouldn't believe, they love it. i know its all about what you do not what it is.. and people always say its no good being big if you cant use it.... but why should every one think this? does this mean that every one with a big cock is sh*t in bed? well my girl friend would certainly not complain... and i also am very good at oral... but i dont think havng a small cock would make me better because im compensating... i just love sex..
and to say that women are happy with just an average one is probebly true... as they are... but they still love the excitement of being pounded by a massive cock..
for example, i went to a club the other month and there were 3 women there that i had slept with, and they are all friends. as the drinks went down and we all started to have a laugh one of them brought up my cock size... and they all agreed it was the biggest they had.. and all made a bit of a joke about how great big cocks are... but the wierdest thing was what my mates girl, who i hadnt slept with, her reaction... she was enthralled by it wanting to know more as she never had a big one... now they are very much in love and still together now.. but as i say.. she still wanted to know about a big cock...
this leads me to believe its allways in the back of every womens mind..

I like really big breasts, I mean like Maxi Mound size or Minka; gives me a hard on like you would'nt believe. Thing is though all the women I've ever fallen in love with haven't been big at all. If this can happen with me when it comes to the crunch of a proper loving relationship, I don't see why a women should be hell bent on finding a donkey dick.

I am currently in a relationship (kind of...)...I never knew what it felt like until recently...I had always been with average size guys from 7-8 inches...and from thin to thick girth. Mostly white and hispanic men. I am mostly hispanic and 29 years old. They have always been great guys, treated me well, and been very good in bed...but there was always something missing. I always dreamed of what it would be like to be with a larger than average guy. Well...talk about hitting the jackpot in the horse department! The guy was black white and hispanic and one of my gf's actually met him on match.com. I never knew a human being could be built like him! I swear this guy came from a steroided up budweiser horse! The guy is an absolute freak of nature and gets starred at ALL THE time by girls and guys! I was actually very grossed out when I first saw him at Club Space. My girlsfriends were freaking out...some laughing, some gasping, and some trying to jump him. I do hate all the attention he gets when we are out even when he trys to hide himself so to speak...But....After meeing Michael in miami 3 years ago, hours of nightly phone calls, and many many secret return trips both between and during boyfriends...we finally hooked up after a wild night out on the town! Well, that was 9 months ago and several times since! I can only handle him once every couple of weeks cause I can't walk straight for full week afterwards! It is both a blessing and it sucks at the same time! I have tried multiple times being with other guys and more recently with a guy that I really care about...but I cannot get Michael out of my head! I know he is seeing other girls and I feel sooooooo superficial telling this other guy anything. He is a really really a wonderful guy and great in bed...just not for me...I think. I am running out of excuses for work trips from NY to Miami and it really hurts my "kind-of-boyfriend's" feelings when I constently insist on using BAM dildo to get off. But it is the only way I can now feel at least partially satisfied. I cannot even begin to explain the sexual ectasy and almost pleasureable pain...if that makes any sense...from being with him. I secretly use BAM at least twice a day (except a week off when back from seeing Michael) and can't wait to see Michael again. The ohter guy is not happy either because he says that I am very lose. I think he must suspect something especially after getting back from my trips all the time...I can no longer even feel him inside of me at all...and he is biggest of the avg size guys that I have been with. That is why I thought it may work out. To think that when I first saw Michael I was so turned off by how big he was...to now...I don't know if I could ever be with anyone except him! Even when I watch porn with my gf's sometime...I went from buying regular x movies (which really used to turn me on) to searching for the movies with the guys with the biggest penises possible...and they are all small compared to him...(even porn doesn't turn me on any more)! In otherwords...no matter what a lady says...once you get over the initial and extreme pain (still hurts like hell...but I love it and now think...need it...my gf's say I am "addicted" to Mike)...maybe they are right! ....Once you have felt the inside of your body fell such extreme plaeasure, pain, and sexually exctasy...nothing will come close to how it feels to feel fuller than you have ever dreamed possible!!! I never knew I my body could do the things it does until I met Michael! I guess we will see what the future holds with my still friend Michael.

Oh well, I guess it seems the end for us average sized men. I don't really care though, there's not many women in my eyes that are absolutely perfect. They pick on you about your penis size (I mean the totally heartless ones that would tell you like they really don't give a shit) I'm sure there's something you can say to them. I like really big breasts; like Maxi Mound size or Minka, gives me a hard on like you would'nt believe. All the women I have ever fallen in love with though have not been big at all. I like to think if football sized breasts which I like isn't everything to me, a guy with a donkey dick should'nt be to a woman.

Most european women have sloppy vaginas anyway (they're big people) and need a big
cock for stimulation. I prefer asian women women since they have small tight pussies
and an european cock is big for them and their pussies are much more tight and enjoyable.

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yes its nice but if its too big it can be painful.. so slightly above average is the real best...

I've heard that white women like sex with blacks because they're kind of like animals, (like fucking a dog or a goat) as if white females like beastiality or something. black guys do look a little like animals, i suppose, a bit like the missing link. Is that the attraction? That sex with a black is taboo, like doing an animal of some kind? As if the cock size isn't quite human? Just wondering. And why is it only white women? feminism? Beause speaking as an asian woman, there aren't many asian women that think about blacks.

I've heard that white women like sex with blacks because they're kind of like animals, (like fucking a dog or a goat) as if white females like beastiality or something. black guys do look a little like animals, i suppose, a bit like the missing link. Is that the attraction? That sex with a black is taboo, like doing an animal of some kind? As if the cock size isn't quite human? Just wondering. And why is it only white women? feminism? Beause speaking as an asian woman, there aren't many asian women that think about blacks.

LMAO COME ON! WHAT A DUMB ASS QUESTION! WHO FUCKING CARES! MOST WOMEN WANT YOUR BANK BOOK. NOT YOUR COCK! THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT THE SIZE OF IT..

LOOK AT BILL GATES WIFE.. A SUPER MODEL. DO YOU THINK HE HAS A BIG COCK? NOOOOO!

I have been with different men of all sizes at my age of 32 since I started having sex at 18. Experience will give the best opinion all the time. Since life is not perfect the most satisfying sex experience is the one with security. It sure did not feel any good having sex with a man with a larger package if he does not have any money. Lets face it ladies, we enjoy having pleasurable sex with someone we just adore. I just love my handsome man looking at me eye to eye when he is making love to me. He is also very financially secure since I am not starving after a night of hot sex. Our home is just gorgeous with lots of food in the fridge. My man drives a porche to work and he has a ferrarri to drive for the weekend. He bought me a mustang GT for our wedding five years ago and I still have my toyota camry as a spare car. Yes we are both professionals and well to do. Nothing compares when a real man takes care of you darlings day in and day out. Yes, my pussy aches after all that licking, fingering, and dick filling fuck but I would not have any other dick than my hubby. See you ladies at the gym.

im like small average 4.8 inches... alot of girls and guys have both humiliated me.. took me awhile to get over it (5 years ) but now i dont care. people who make fun of stuff like that have mental problems and dont deserve your company. they could perhaps be jealous of something you have and just try to ridicule to make them selves feel better. actually being made fun of my size younger in life made it hard for me to have sex cuz i was embarrased and i couldent fuck as good as i could with that mental thought there. maybe you girls who fuck smaller dicks dont realise maybe hes shy and dosent move his dick in the way he should. Trust me my dick is very pleasurable. Id love for one of you anti small dick girls to fuck me and id show you the other way around.I really came to love my size now... its perfect for anal play cuz its not huge and dosent hurt the girl. i swear id make a small dick hater into a small dick lover. im a short guy with a short dick and i found a BEAUTIFUL girl that is faithful to me and loves my size because she has a small inside as well... her ex boy friends were big dicks and she tells me she loves how my dick feels as its the perfect fit for her. she orgasms with my dick and we have lots of fun. so my advice for small dicks out there... so what man its your onyl dick and its sexy... dont u dare think bad about it cuz that lil fucker is more pleasurble than any other dick... once you think like that you can fuck good... get rid of the shyness crap with your dick. your dick is your friend... treat it good no matter the size it desevrs its pussy. oh and if people make fun of it just dont let it get to ya cuz there just trying to make you feel bad. many people are evil and love to tell hurtful things just to hurt you. i mean its not your fault they cant feel your dick because they stick huge drilling toys up their pussys. What a whore.... even if a girl does laugh at it just blow it off and stay hard and make her suck it and fuck her as if that small dick stuff is out of your head and she will most likley like your dick if your confident about you dick... IMO if your dick is 2" and bigger you can fuck... i mean there are lesbian 2 girl lovers that dont have dicks and they just give pussy massages to each other and they love that. so unless your dick is smaller than a clit. PENIS SIZE does not matter if it matters to a girl shes just been with the wrong small dick that didnt know how to use it. small dicks are better than big ones but it will take a few trial and erros to get to know how to use it. be the bitch fucker that you are my fellow small dicks.

pros to a small dick :
girl can suck on it easier and suck the whole thing... a plus
we can enter the ass alot easier and the girl wont feel pain just pure pleasure
a girl can get another girl off with her clit im sure your small dick is bigger

there is no cons to a small dick and people who say there is just havnt been with the right small dick.

SMALL DICK PEOPLE get over it your dick is fine go fuck the bitches like the bitcch fucker you are on the inside

I've heard that white women like sex with blacks because they're kind of like animals, (like fucking a dog or a goat) as if white females like beastiality or something. black guys do look a little like animals, i suppose, a bit like the missing link. Is that the attraction? That sex with a black is taboo, like doing an animal of some kind? As if the cock size isn't quite human? Just wondering. And why is it only white women? feminism? Beause speaking as an asian woman, there aren't many asian women that think about blacks.