If the bully, who used to always taunt and tease you--when you were a little kid--were to show up as a new user on AB; how would you greet that person?
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sm00z
ANSWERS: 31
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With an elbow to the nose.
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I'd say "Say hello to my little friend!" as I click the minus button >=)
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I'd say "Hi, how you doing? Welcome to AB, you'll like it here, no one bullies you!" I can't carry childhood issues into adulthood. That would keep me in childhood, now wouldn't it?
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"How do you like me now?" LOL
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I'n not sure. That's a tough one. I had several bullies growing up. One of them actually apologized to me years ago. Didn't have an excuse.....just wanted to say sorry to me.
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I wouldn't. Bullies do permanent damage to their victims. Whether they later realize it or not, whether they apologize in later life or not, the harm has already been done, and cannot be undone. I cannot forgive any of mine. My life has sucked in large measure because of the 'training' they gave me in my formative years.
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The same way as everyone else. I am a firm believer of forgivness because I have wronged a few people in my life and I would want them to forgive me.
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I would do everything I can to get him permbanned.
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I'd make sure that I gave him as many downratings as possible. I'd try to think of some things to do to him to make this place not seem fun, so he just disappears.
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Well, I'd be polite and answer ALL of their questions, and comment them. But when they least expect it their rate is going DOWN!!!!!! on everything!!!!! >.<
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how u doing dickhead guess what i do for a living now what are u doiung now a days still bein an asshole i remember u and im sure ur life sucks now barely any friends family cuz uve been a dick ur whole life play that song for him were u born an asshole or did u work at it ur whole life
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Hahaha, fine, I run into her all the time, when I am ordering Taco bell, she works the cash register.
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how would we even know who is behind an avatar. we all survived some kind of trauma as kids. bullies just build one's character. people survive. we dont need to carry past anger into the present.
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I should imagine with the same respect that all users on AB deserve!
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lol - I'd never know it - I seem to have blocked most of high school from my memory. I barely remember anybody, even when they say "Didn't I go to high school with you?"
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I recently met a guy who blooded my nose and bent my glasses at a baseball game once he was bigger than me. We had a decent conversation. However, I had gotten back at him in football as a high schooler. He came out and was going to play center. The coach put me over him and I tackled the quarterback as soon as he got the ball. The kid wasn't there the next day. So, I would greet Ernie as a regular ABer. I got my revenge.
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I was never bullied, but I was teased for being thin (especially my arms). I'd greet them and give them a chance like anyone else. It's easier for me though, because I wasn't bullied. Is someone here a bully from your past?
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One tried to bully me but I hit him so bad that I broke most of his teeth, if I ever ran into him again I would probably not do anything I would not do to others under normal circumstances. What happened when we were kids belongs to the past. Regards.
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If I really knew for sure it was that person, I would pretend they weren't here. I would ignore them, just like I do in real life. I've lived in the same small town my whole life, I have plenty of practice. It went way beyond taunting.
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I wouldn't greet them at all. I would ignore them (by not answering their questions, commenting on their answers, among others). In short, they would get the same treatment that I give to those who have bullied me on this site. Yes, I don't believe in the "be the bigger person" thing.
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I actually get on with a few of the people who bullied me as a kid, so i would say hi and ask how they are doing.:)
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I wouldn't.
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Well, I'd have to hope they had matured in 35 years and were nicer as grandparents than they'd been as kids. If I knew for sure they were the same person, I'd try to be nice and give them a chance to show me who they were now. I was only ever bullied in grade school. The kids I went to Jr High and High School with were much kinder.
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if i knew it was them i would ignore them and maybe only give sarcastic answers i would not initiate or continue on a convasation with them. i maybe speakin to my bullies from my past on here with out my knowing, which actually makes me cringe. my bullies would only speak to me when THEY wanted something from me!
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Hey lowlife remember me? Oh thats right you never did get out of the 10th grade while i went on to get my masters and become rich and freakin famous.
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I would say.. hey Michael Grossbauer... I didn't know the prisoners had computer access.
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Very simple, I would forgive them all except for 2 of them. They were the ones who started to bully me in the 4th grade and got the entire grade to bully me. Everyone but those 2 i can forgive but those 2 if i see them again ill just knock them the %$^& out
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With open arms hoping their negativity has since gone away. If not, then I will let them live their unhappy live and...karma is a bitch!
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I was never horribly bullied, so I could easily forgive the ones that attempted to push my buttons.
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Funny thing happened after I left school. Suddenly those people liked me better. (Don't know about all of them, just some of them.) It's been a long time now and I really don't care. I think we'd get along well, even face to face. I was a bully once or twice - at primary school. Luckily, I grew out of it quick. If I was to meet one of my victims now I'd feel very embarrassed and apologetic.
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fuck u bitch not u the bulli
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