ANSWERS: 3
  • Well stop screwing the other guy for starters ! Not that even doing it once is acceptable, you have been doing this guy for 3 weeks. You need to stop immediately. Also, I am not one of the kneejerkers that believes you should come clean to the BF. I would not want to know.
  • ask yourself - what made you want to have sex with someone else. What is it lacking in your relationship? I've been in this situation before and i'm not proud of it, but whilst I love my boyfriend, he wasn't fulfilling a need in me. We are scared to lose what we have and yet there is a desire for something more. We can talk about it if you want.
  • You should put an end to it. Make it clear that you want nothing to do with him anymore. Seriously. If your boyfriend finds out about this, it will help him to know that you were the one who put an end to it. I found out my boyfriend cheated on me (on my own, no one really told me), and it comforts me with the knowledge of knowing that he is the one who put an end to it. Also, if you feel you are missing something in your relationship, it is completely important to TALK to him about it. If you don't tell him, how he is supposed to know? Make sure you don't blame him for this at all, though. It's not his fault. It's yours. Since it is your fault, I would advise you not to go around telling people and making them promise not to tell him. This isn't anyone else's issue. It's yours. If you aren't willing to tell your boyfriend, be prepared to live with the guilt. If he finds out and tells people, remember that it is because he is hurt and broken and probably doesn't know who to turn to.

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