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  • any guy that would break up with you over text messaging was not worth it to begin with. He didnt have the common courtesy and respect to bring your relationship to an end face to face. It was as though you meant nothing to him. Why would you miss a creep like that?
  • If you give me his name I'll kill him for you. That's a hell of a rude, crude and inconsiderate way to break up with someone after two years. He really does deserve killing for that. (And though I'm not kidding about that, I am kidding about my offer, of course -- and you shouldn't hire out the job to anyone else, either. I'm new here at AB, so I figured I should clarify that.) But on a less serious note ... someday you really will look back on this time and realize that you have dodged a bullet here. Seriously; this guy is bad news, and no kind of gentleman. You deserve better, and I can say that without reservation and without even knowing you because *anyone* deserves better than that. In the meantime, try to get out more, get your mind on other things and other people, and you will eventually get over him. I think the rule of thumb is approximately one month of "grieving" for each year spent together before the breakup, so you should be getting over him soon, I think. Chin up; smile. It'll get better sooner than you think.
  • My bf dumped me over msn and pretty much treated me the way you're describing. YOU NEED TO OVERCOME THIS, or else you look like the desperate ex with no self esteem. Remember that he broke up with you over TEXT MESSAGE and that he didn't even have the guts to talk to you. It sucks that you work with him and I urge you to start looking for another job, if possible. Talk to a girlfriend (another single one helps) and go out alot. You may not forget about him at first, but soon you'll find that you're enjoying yourself without him. I've been feeling shitty lately too, so I'm going shopping now!
  • Get over it....it's sad to say but he obviously doesn't regard you that highly and he is a coward. Count your blessings that he is no longer in your life, you deserve better, shit we all do!!! 2 years you devoted to him, he thinks you are only worth a text, honey move on!!!!!!!!!!! he is rude.
  • what a jerk. I have nothing more to say. Good luck and dont worry, you'll find someone worth your time.
  • What your ex-boyfriend did was crass and immature. I've been there, and it can be difficult since the two of you work together. He's acting immaturely because he knows that you still love him. MOVE ON!!!! I know it's hard, but you need to stop worrying about the piece-of-shyt scumbag and get on with YOUR life!!
  • My advice is very simple....One day walk into work well groomed and very confident with your head up high , go up to him and say i Have something to tell you wether you want to listen to it or not i quite frankly dont care if i embarass you in front of the entire office but you obviously wouldnt matter because if you had values or some kind respect for yourself you wouldnt have acted the way you did , I hope you dont think i actually give a Damn about you at this point ,so yes keep avoiding me cause i dont want to remember i ever knew you and its not because i love you. Once you grow up and you're ready to be a men and talk about what happend in your childish head I wont be here to listen to you " oh and by the way have a a Great Day!
  • Two years and a break up by way of txt is sad. I'm sorry for you. Do nothing if possible because there doesn't seem to be any options with the scenario. Hold you head up very high and do the best you can do. If he presents himself like that then his true colors will come out eventually.

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