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I choose not to do it, But i don't think its wrong. Any1 who wants to can go right ahead :)
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It's not something I would ever do.
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Its not for me. I think they are dangerous to your emotions and possibly your health.
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I think its better to have two night stands, one for each side of the bed... LOL
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I think you need to weigh up the short-term benefits (e.g. instant gratification) against the longer-term disadvantages (e.g. how will you feel later when / if you settle down and/or get married, how will your partner reach). There is no absolute right or wrong here - only what's right or wrong for you (and the person / people you may end up caring about). Contrary to popular opinion, not all men want to sleep around before marriage - I was still a virgin when I first go married - so if that's important to your future husband, then a history of one night stands might be an issue for the two of you. Just my thoughts, so take them for whatever you think they're worth.
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absolutely not..just make sure to be smart and safe about it
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All I can know, is that it's wrong for me.
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I've had a few. I knew what I was getting in to, I knew what I wanted, and I was safe about it. To each his/her own.
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I think only an individual can answer this for themselves. The fact of the matter is, whether intentional or not, they happen... Seeing as I am married, I would not have one, but I would never in a million years judge another, either positively or negatively, for having one themselves. Frankly, it's none of my business...
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I had a few, and I personally chose to stop. It was too much for me emotionally, and I was concerned about my health and safety. Condoms are not 100%, so I chose to let that activity go. Not necessarily wrong, but it is risky...
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hold on a second ... every relationship that i've ever been in started out as a one night engagement. sometimes there've been encore requests. other times, we both run away realizing that that was something we'd never want to do again. the definition of "wrong" (i know, i'm starting to sound like bill clinton!!!) can be defined in a lot of ways - most churches profess that one night stands are wrong. churches often tell us that god or allah or krishna or ... thinks its wrong. depending on what two adults are doing in the privacy of their own home, many states in the usa define certain common sexual practices as wrong. daddy's probably never want their little girl to grow up and start having one night stands. in my own experience, sometimes, they've turned out to be "wrong" and sometimes, kosher. for myself, at this age, i'm less interested in what a one night stand can offer me and i am more interested in what relationships of all sorts have to offer.
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Personally I don't see it as being "wrong" in any way. That said I have no interest in doing it. My concern is that I'll contract something and when I do find Miss Right, I'd have done a disservice to her and myself. Secondly, I don't know how I'd respond to it on an emotional level. My only interest is in long term, monogamous relationships with someone I care about. As far as anyone else is concerned they have every right to do as they please and it's fine with me.
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Well... I think that depends entirely upon your own personality and mental and emotional maturity and spiritual values. It is said in most cultures, that when you come full coitus with another indivisual, that in the moment you reach orgasim together, you ascend somewhat both metaphorically and spiritually, with that indivisual and a certain part of you, meshes with them for a time and you come away from each liason carrying a piece of that indivisual around with you. I for one, do not think that a one night stand is quite enough time to decide if that person is deserving of you, or you them or not, on that kind of level. But if you're an atheist? I don't think it matters much considering?
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No.
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Not if you're single and willing, the other person is single and willing.
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I believe in waiting for the one person you will be with your whole life, that way if you get that person pregnant, you're not screwed. And also, you know for a fact that you won't get an std from doing it with one person. It's all safe and you don't have to worry about using condoms, unless your s/o isn't on the pill or what not, and are free to do it whenever you want and not have to go out there and pick up a random chick you don't know. :D
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No.
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No not if you are single.
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Depends if you have the itch !
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If you are a woman... absolutely WRONG
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Men or women it's fine. Why not. Life is good, sex is great, our bodies are made for it. Puritans shrivel and prune up.
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Nah, as long as both parties know what it is and are ok with it, I think it's fine.
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I've had my share and I think that they're necessary. My vibrator only goes so far.
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In the old days I couldn't live without them. Now I'm pretty old and no one asks anymore.
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I used to not anymore as long as both of you are using protection and single why not????
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i have to two takes. i cant decide which one i like. 2 consenting adults should be able to do what they want. but then as jodi picoult said in one of her books "random sex didnt mean anything, but then again, neither did you".
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Definitely wrong, you should always have a night stand on each side of the bed to balance the room. But I guess in a small room it might be okay to just have one night stand.
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It's only wrong if you force her. IF you both know what is going to happen, then just let it happen and go from there. I usually call them the next day also, but that's just me.
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as long as both parties understand and are in agreement I dont see a problem with it.
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Yes, I do. They desensitize us in my opinion.
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Wrong as in "morally wrong"? I try not to go there and make judgments for other people; morality is an individual choice. For me it's wrong, because I'm committed to someone. If I wasn't committed to her, then I would just think it was a bad idea, as it would prevent my commitment to someone else. I think finding the right person and committing to that person is a good idea, and one-night stands get in the way of that process.
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nah, its not wrong. I mean its probably not a very safe way to live.
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Well i think it depends on a lot is this to make someone else mad or to hurt someone that has hurt you. and not a good thing if you are married.
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Face facts...the chances for a marriage lasting your whole life today is very few and far between. The average marriage today lasts 7 to 10 years. As for STD's; yes, they are there and yes, they are a danger but anyone who is responsible will be checked regularly and be sure they don't have anything...and what is wrong with asking? Pregnancy today should not be a problem with the very good controceptives available as well. Sex was given to us to enjoy and have fun with...just like food...also multitable sex partners builds the immune system too. http://www.libchrist.com/sexed/sexstrongerimmune.html
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Who am I to say if it's wrong or right? I had one and to this day regret it. The temporary fun isn't worth it, I want to be with a woman that I care about and she cares about me. Sex is secondary on the list - love is primary or first. But that's the way I live my life, so it has no bearing on what another wants to do and feels is accepatable.
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If your partner believes you are both in an exclusive relationship, yes. If you are single, yes - because you do not know if the person has an STD. Why risk your own health for a fling with someone? Condoms are not %100 effective, and sometimes they break or are faulty to begin with.
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no, i learned a lot from all the sexual partners i have had over the years - it was fun
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I don't think it's wrong to have one night stands, but it's not for me.
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If you're single its not a problem. Just be safe, and dont manipulate the other person into thinking its something more.
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Personally speaking I dont think its ok. I want to make love, I dont want sex.
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I prefer to have at least two nights. To see if it's getting better or worse than the first time.
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Yes it is wrong. A woman should at least make a commitment to have 3 or 4 nights before she breaks it off. I mean, what is this world coming to?
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yeah I know is kind of wrong,, but sometimes we cant help it.... a long as you dont do it to often,,,, I guess..
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Yes...my bedroom isn't big enough for two nightstands.
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Not for others, but wrong for me
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No . I met a girl on a blind date , we got hammered at the restaurant , and ended having wild steamy sex all weekend long . Nothing wrong with that is there
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There is nothing bad in that :)..And if you want to find your one night stands go here: GigoloDating.com Btw, look at my profile there: registered as John007. I can speak English, Spanish and German. Able to provide my services (massage, male companion, escorts) in London, New York, Munich, Barcelona and Moscow. Looking forward meeting you, ladies :)
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I've had a few.
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No,not at all,sometimes that's all it takes to 'scratch an itch'
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Nah. I've had a bunch of them. They're cool.
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No, its not wrong. Just be safe....use condoms.
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I would not say it's any more wrong than other risky behaviors we engage in. They do require good judgment, but then I guess that takes some of the spontaneity out of it. Some people seem to handle it better than others. At some point if everyone had a long stream of one-night stands we'd run out of new partners and end up having to go back for seconds, or we would just run out and be lonely. I had a few of them after my divorce, and they were all fun at the time. But they did leave me wondering "what if." I personally couldn't handle all those loose ends--the possible drunk dialies, or flowers showing up, or later on bumping into a guy that I gave it up for in the heat of passion.
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I have had a few.
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THOSE WHO R UNMARRIED WHEN TIME COMES THERE WILL B A STAND FOR U EVERY NIGHT.HOPE THE MARRIED ONE ALSO GOT IT...ENJOY WITH UR PARTNER IN ALL THE WAY,EMOTIONALLY & SEXUALLY BE STRONG PHYSICALLY.
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